I met this girl, and I like her so much. She's beautiful, intelligent, kind, everything I want in a girlfriend. I've never felt this way about a girl b4. But the problem is: she's not a virgin. She slept with a guy once, and i'm torn up right now. What should i do? I don't wanna let this girl go. She's one of the sweetest girls I've ever met in my life and i don't wanna let her go, but with her not being a virgin, i'm at my wits end. Please help me.
2006-10-08 03:27:14 · 13 answers · asked by ike_am26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to figure out why it's so important that she should be a virgin, when she has such wonderful qualities. You don't know the circumstances. Usually it's the guy who pressures the girl into having sex. There aren't too many virgins your age out there, but there are a whole lot of terrific women. Don't use that one standard as a deal-breaker or you might lose out on the love of your life.
2006-10-08 03:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are not vigins these days. Neither are most men. If you are going to hold that against her,then i dont think you should go out with her. She didnt do anything wrong. If she was ready to sleep with someone then thats her problem not yours. You are not going to find a perfect women. Noone is perfect. So if you are really into this girl then i suggest you dont let the fact that shes not a virgin bother you.
2006-10-08 10:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look....... did the fact that she is not a virgin make her less beautiful, intelligent, kind and sweet? NO right!!!!! or else u wouldnt be head over heels in love with her so what is the problem here again!
Dont be so shallow and look at the big picture. Virginity does not a woman make, its her character!
2006-10-08 10:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by naychan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard for you to accept but would you have preferred it if she lied to you and on your wedding night to find out that she's not? It's really hard to find a girl who's a virgin till their wedding night God know i'm not but i've found the man of my life, the man i love and he's the only one i've ever been with. I'm hoping that love will lead us to the end. If you love her, go with her ,at least she's honest.. Good luck!
2006-10-08 10:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Natasha O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my advice to you is in high school most girls arent virgins but if you relaly like this girl that much and if youve never felt that way abotu a girl give her a chance ask her out you dont wnat to loose her just becuase she slept with another guy if you liek her go for it! you dont wnat to miss out on your first girlfriend that you really really care about
2006-10-08 10:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, hold out for a virgin. I'm sure one will come along in no time and want to give it up to you and only you.
2006-10-08 10:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most women are not virgins so don't worry about it and get on to asking her out
2006-10-08 10:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You musnt worry about this. if u like her then go for it, and ussualy a girls 1st time is not that special anyway, and if theres a connection then who cares if shes been with someone b4
2006-10-08 10:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by smiles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her what is the big deal that shes not a virgin...that shouldn't matter to you.Your stressing over nothing.
2006-10-08 10:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by Aira 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and stay with her. Your probably not a virgin
2006-10-08 10:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋