i have 2 kids...i still breast feed..he likes to feed on me alot....hes a foot freak and he like me dancing with other males......and some times to go on dates with them.....
i need views of ppl who have experience and can guide me....
2006-10-08 03:25:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anita Zultan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds very uncomfortable for you. If you don't like it, you should tell him to stop.
2006-10-08 03:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ok, I would have to say this man is on the disrespectful and un-mannerly side. Your husband is not normal. Sorry. A lot of men want to taste/sip on breastmilk, but to drink a lot...no...first off he's robbing the nourishment for your baby. No wonder you are fatigued and tired because breast-milk production is very very exhausting on your body. If he is pushing you to dance with other men and go on dates with them, then he's getting a charge out of it somehow and maybe hoping that it will lead to a 3-some...again, not normal. As far as feet, a lot of men really like kissing and rubbing feet, sounds like this is the least of your concerns.
I would have a good old-fashioned conversation and communicate your feelings with your husband and explain that you enjoy intimacy with him and only him. The key is not to belittle him or anger him so you both don't fight and argue. I'm sure he knows that this isn't right, but he's probably thinking it's consented by you because you have not objected to his slightly perverted ways. Give and inch and he takes a mile.
Speak up girl, give that many your viewpoint before it damages your relationship.
2006-10-08 03:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
odd or gross sex depends on your culture and way of life .. so its difficult to say just what is .. being a foot freak as u say is the least of fetishes unless u dont like to have your feet touched ... and him having u dance and go out with other males seem like he is leading into group sex if this isnt u then let him kno that it wont happen .....
2006-10-08 03:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there still enough for the baby, A little but a lot is too much, and none if you object.
I don't mind my wife dancing with others, she likes to dance and I don't.
Dates with other men is WEIRD.
I will look at women's feet but am not freakish about it. Women wouldn't paint their toenails and wear sandals if they didn't want them to be seen.
I think hubby needs some counciling.
2006-10-08 03:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...He goes out with other guys on "dates" . Sounds like a case of.....(fact revealing dramatic music) of bi-sexuality happening here. As to the foot thing and breast feeding thing. You might want to try putting a diaper on him and just kick the crap out of him with your foot. That should make him real happy. Face it....he's weird
2006-10-08 03:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by asbratcher 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First thing I want to address is the fact that you should STOP HAVING KIDS WITH THIS MAN! You don't like what he does, and this is a big issue here (not like leaving the toothpaste cap off). Just telling him you don't like it isn't going to make his fetishes go away, but you do need to tell him that you don't like it and your not doing it anymore.
2006-10-08 03:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me the answer is easy when it comes to sex. If both people want to do something, then it's fine. If only one wants to do it, then talk about it- a lot- and maybe come up with creative compromise.
Don't do what you don't want to do, but, be open to new experiences.
Best wishes from a grandma-aged person
2006-10-08 03:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to "wean" that man, I think all that breast milk is rotting his brain.
2006-10-08 03:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it tell him. Only do the things that are comfortable for you!
2006-10-08 03:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by willis_is_40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First are you happy with that?Yes you may proceed.If no stick to your decision.Not to worry about your partner feeling.He think what best for him.
2006-10-08 03:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by Alexis 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋