this question is mainly for girls but guys could answer too if you want.
ok, lets say that your best friend is a guy and as time goes on, you really like him. but the problem is he is taken by your other friend...you want to go out with your guy friend...but hes taken. if this has/is happening to you, what are you thinking? do you think about him NONSTOP? but the couple BARELY talk...what do you do?
plus, you think he kinda likes YOU. for ex., hugging 3 TIMES at the mall one day, him giving you a cookie and not giving one to one of your friends, him asking you if you have a boyfriend, etc. etc. etc.
2006-10-08 02:47:34 · 12 answers · asked by ~RockandRollChica~ 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sorry...I have a Rule...never go out with GF's ...BF's...unless you don't want her for a friend any longer?
2006-10-08 02:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by mywaypink 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont' make a move till he's single. if he's not talking to his g/f then it will more then likely be over soon. so wait it out. but dont' disrespect yourself by going after him when he has a g/f. you dont' want to be that kind of person to play those games. your worth more then that. being friends ahead of time is great. but be ready to end that friendship if it doesn't work out as a b/f g/f situation. cuase chances are you wont' be able to go back if it doesn't work out. but i would still take that chance if it were me. but dont' even insinuate your interested. let your friend work out his own relationship. if he asks you questions about what he should do be objective. dont' tell him stuff from a more personal note to gain more access to the possibility of you starting somethign with him. anything real and worthwhile and long lasting should come from a place of truth honesty and love. not from deception. so hold out till he's single. let him deal with his biz. then if the time presents itself. then talk to him. be honest and up front. you can tell how you had feelings startign from way back when.......but decided not to say anything cause you didnt' want to confuse the situation. if you were to say something now...he might confuse him more now and back off from the both of you. sometimes if people can't deal with something and are not sure........i notice a tendancy to back away. which isn't bad. but it could jeopardize your friendship. anyways...good luck
2006-10-08 10:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't happening to me. My advice to you would be to leave it alone. Just accept him as a friend and respect that he's with someone else. Acting on your feelings for him will ruin all the the friendships.
2006-10-08 10:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and make yourself available. (oh yeah, and decide whether your friendship with his girlfriend is important or not) because you will most definitely loose her friendship. If it's more important to you to be with him, then like I said bide your time and be there for him. It will happen if that's what he wants! Trust me. Men are fickle. They always want to have their cake and eat it too. Do you want to be cake, or not?
2006-10-08 09:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Basketcase 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, he's not yours so leave him alone.
if he really liked you than he would break up with your friend to go out with you.
but, just remember...if you go out with him you just might end up not having a friend, anymore.
leave your friends b/f alone and find someone else who's not taken.
2006-10-08 09:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Praise the Lord 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him cuz hes taken...if u really like him and wanna go out then wait until he breaks up with his gf...that way.....u dont have to worry too much....
2006-10-08 10:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will break up with your friend and go out with that guy, besides, which is more important,friends or your love?
2006-10-08 10:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth but nothing but the truth about how u felt bout him n ask him how he feel bout you. no point keeping quiet and assuming things.
2006-10-08 09:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD LOOK ELSEWHERE. Are you three years old, move to another sand box.
2006-10-08 09:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by need2knw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not thinking as the way you are thinking of him or he doesn't knows that he is that matter to you..
2006-10-08 09:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋