why am acting like that??

Question

why i like hurt the others?and i know that my words will make them feel sad?sometimes is like a play. i want to see their reaction when i say something that will annoy them.am i a bad person??everyone adores me beside this stupid habit i have!!

actually am doing this when i try to avoid someone!!

Answer 1

when we ourselves are verbally or mentally hurt, we feel that we need to pass our pain unto others because we want out pain shared. Its something we suffer subconciously and it is a hard habit to break. But it is a breakable habit at that. My advice, one thing youcould do is go back and remember how you felt when you were treated like that, and think to yourself, that those people dont like it anymore than you yourself did. Keep that in mind and you might be able to break it. I do the sane thing for pleasure but it doesnt hurt anyone. They all know im kidding.

Answer 2

For some reason, the empathic nature is slow to develop in many children ( which is why some are so mean and sometimes actually evil ). In a good situation the parents are observant and manage and teach the child but some parents are too busy or naively believe their child is all good. Empathy is found in mature wise adults. If you don't want a bad reputation, make an effort to learn empathy. I am sorry your parents aren't available to help you. Are there any other good adults around who can ?

Answer 3

You are not a bad person Marilena. As you say, everyone adores you. You just have to deal with your bad habit just like many of us having some kind of bad habits. Normally this can be traced to your childhood developments and hence you should be able to outgrow this habit. But you have to deal with it to beat that stupid habit. Then you'll feel you're a better person. Good luck, you can do it.

Answer 4

In all seriousness you should consider counseling, the fact that you enjoy hurting people for whatever reasons could be a sign of low self esteem, and your need to make others look bad in order to make yourself feel good or look good.

Answer 5

i think somebody hurt u deep inside or u think the world has been unfair to u... so u want to give back some of the "bad behavior"...

if thats not the case, then u hav a sadistic part of u that u don't know :)

Answer 6

So another words you have or have had a troubled childhood. I think it best you make an appointment with a psychologist to help you through this predicament.

Answer 7

its pathetic! plz change