My hubby and i are trying for baby cant afford ivf would it be wrong to ask someone to help us out ???????

Question

Hubby cant have kids but we desperatley want a baby we are good people and thought of asking someone if they would help us out. Would this be the wrong way to go about having a lovely bundle of joy?

Answer 1

no .. but get a lawyer involved and have a binding agreement with the person helping out ... u dont want him to come back years later and say this is my kid .... best of luck

Answer 2

No it wouldn't be wrong but you would want a baby who came from you and only you. If your friend has a baby and she gives it to you it might be a chance that the baby looks like her so its between a yes and a no.

Answer 3

My sis and her husband had IVF, and yes it's expensive. My parents, our siblings and my brother in law's parents helped. Once your family knows of the situation, and you have good ties with them, then i think they'd be more than willing to help. I also don't think they'd kick a fuss... especially if they are parents themselves. Make sure to keep it within the family though.

Answer 4

it is not wrong if you can trust someone
but you might call different clinic to find out the cost
before asking someone
Good luck

Answer 5

ask a good friend.

my best friend did it for a couple when we were in college. they had his sign papers that he wouldn't want the child...and everyone was happy.

Answer 6

Well, can you keep it in the family, like asking his brother or a cousin?

Answer 7

No, I wouldn't say it would be wrong. Try looking for a saragent mother or go to an adoption agency.

Answer 8

try Dr Richard schultze's incurable program..he said everyone that ever went to him trying to concieve did , when they got extremely healthy

..your hubby should also do. (be back in a minute)

OK, I am back..I searched out these links for you..this is what I would do if it were me in that awful situation. Thjis is the best I know from 28 years of study in alternative health...


http://www.herbdoc.com/p62.asp (incurables) this tells about the incurables porogram..get the book..and if possible the videos listed below..if you can't afford his products, make them usig bulk herbs (organic is the best or wildcrafted (in the wilds). Get bulk herbs inexpensively by the ounce online or at a health food store or coop (they don't always sell--- Whole foods and wild oats do and smaller ones.)

Research online how to make a tincture..tinctures are best..they last several years, are more potrent (uses at least 1/2 herbs and 1/2 80 proof vodka (to extract all the chemicals in the herbs) when the tincture settles. It is very easy to make..do get thrown off thinking it's hard. I save 90% off the cost of store tinctures by making my own. Capsules are not the best way to take herbs.

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http://www.herbdoc.com/abp_1024x768.asp

http://www.herbdoc.com/p8.asp (why his products are best)

http://www.herbdoc.com/p64.asp

FERTILITY,
MEN Male, Super Ginseng, Prostate, 5 Day Cleanse

FERTILITY,
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http://www.herbdoc.com/p42.asp (female formula--you must do foundational programs he says)

http://www.herbdoc.com/abptoc.asp (info on five day cleanse)

http://www.herbdoc.com/p41.asp (super ginseng)

http://www.herbdoc.com/p40.asp (prostate formula)

http://www.amazon.com/gp/offer-listing/B0006RS3RE/ref=dp_olp_2/102-3150221-5380922?ie=UTF8 (note--first one only has the manuel..some only have the video--originally
$350.00)

http://search.ebay.com/search/search.dll?sofocus=bs&sbrftog=1&from=R10&satitle=save+your+life+sam&sacat=-1%26catref%3DC6&sargn=-1%26saslc%3D2&sadis=200&fpos=ZIP%2FPostal&ftrt=1&ftrv=1&saprclo=&saprchi=&fsop=1%26fsoo%3D1&coaction=compare&copagenum=1&coentrypage=search (note--the one for $5.23 only has volumes 5-12 but worthwhile in showing how to do the program (but withiout the inspiring testimonies and extras)

They often have this cheaper..keep checking also availailable through sam biser's website or used ot be on there.

http://www.curezone.com/forums/fm.asp?i=66271 (infertility forum with curezone)

http://www.google.com/custom?domains=curezone.com&sitesearch=curezone.com&client=pub-0846790371736460&forid=1&ie=ISO-8859-1&oe=ISO-8859-1&cof=GALT%3A%23008000%3BGL%3A1%3BDIV%3A%23336699%3BVLC%3A663399%3BAH%3Acenter%3BBGC%3AFFFFFF%3BLBGC%3A336699%3BALC%3A0000FF%3BLC%3A0000FF%3BT%3A000000%3BGFNT%3A0000FF%3BGIMP%3A0000FF%3BFORID%3A1%3B&hl=en&q=infertility
(inof on curezone)

http://search.freefind.com/find.html?id=81178768&pageid=r&mode=ALL&n=0&query=infertility (maybe some info here??)

http://www.mothering.com/discussions/forumdisplay.php?f=179 forum for infertility (for support and info)

Answer 9

your insurance might cover it.

Answer 10

why can't you get a sperm donor....