he proposed a month ago and the wedding is set to be two weeks from today but I find that recently he's been acting really standoffish and he stopped calling as regular why do u think this is ?
2006-10-08 01:50:09 · 11 answers · asked by Blaque Inque 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Darlin', you are young. Why do you want to marry a man who already has a wife?
When you meet the right man he will appear to be a friend. He will be happy when you are happy and support you through the tough times. That friendship will grow deeper one day and you will realize that you have a very special relationship with this man. You trust and respect him and you are crazy about his good attributes.
There are lots of men who will be just fine with your height as soon as you are comfortable in your own skin.
And that special man will not disrespect you by bringing you into a relationship where he already has a wife he is committed to. And you won't have to wonder two weeks before the wedding if he is yanking your chain.
Do the things that gain you your independence. Make right decisions and show people you are someone they can respect. Find a man you don't have to hide, but can be proud to introduce to your loved ones.
You are becoming quite the exotic flower. Give yourself time to bloom. You want to be the only woman your man gives himself and his attention to. It will come. Talk with your best friend and really listen to what she has to say. She loves you and can be objective. Then make the right decision and follow through.
2006-10-08 02:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most Guys would never stoop that low
I could not see myself stoooping that low
there could be a veryfew select guys who could but i cannot stress enough how rare that would be
If you were a warship you need to be a navy minesweaper not a battleship .You need to very carefuly and discreetley and nonconfrontationaly find out what is motivating his behavoir .He may be standoffish due to work demands , pre-weding jitters you name it .
Have mutual friends scope out why he is acting this way .
Best of luck to you.
2006-10-08 01:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is so mean know wait until you guys are married. There's no reason for a man to be so mean to a female when he was brought to this world by one. He could had told you is over or we are not ready, but pulling your chain from you neck is not what a reall man will do. He is fake girl push on there more mens in this world.
2006-10-08 01:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dimary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you postpone the wedding and talk to him, you need to find out what's going on. Good Luck.
2006-10-08 01:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't supposed to move so quick. He was just yanking your chain. Get rid of him
2006-10-08 01:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb he feels if his a bit distant now than wen the wedding cums ur'l will b more into each other coz seeing him after long will turn u on greater
2006-10-08 01:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes..... This is a very old ploy. You think you're getting married, so you give him everything he asks for, now that he has you marriage is of no interest.
2006-10-08 01:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is getting cold feet. best to find out why he is acting like this. how long have you known each other and been together as a couple?
2006-10-08 01:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by lon d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for ur sake i reall y hope its not, hes probably just scared, but i wouldnt be surprised if he reconders getting married
2006-10-08 02:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just getting wedding jitters u should talk to him
2006-10-08 01:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by cowboysfan4lyfe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋