When my wife and I are having sex, she (and I) likes to use a vibrator, which is cool. But she seems to get carried away with it and when it comes down to intercourse, we go for about 5 or so minutes and then she wants to stop and I got left high and dry.
Is it worth saying something to her about it or should I just exept it?
With foreplay and all we normally go for about 45 min to a hour and a half.
2006-10-08 01:29:31 · 7 answers · asked by Monkisgreat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
TALK TO HER ABOUT THAT. WE ALSO USE MR. GOOD VIBRATIONS IN OUR LOVE MAKING. TO BE HONEST, I CHECKED UR NAME FIRST TO SEE IF IT'S NOT MY HUSBAND ASKING...:)) ANYWAY, A GOOD RELATIONSHIP IS BASED ON COMUNICATION! THE BEST SEX LIFE -ALSO!UR A TEAM- U SHOULD DEAL WITH UR PROBLEMS TOGETHER. I'M SURE SHE WILL UNDERSTAND. IT'S NOT RIGHT IF U ARE LEFT UNSATISFIED. EVERYTHING ELSE IS PERFECT- A LONG FOREPLAY, TOYS ETC. BUT LOVE MAKING IS MUTUAL EXPERIENCE, SO U BOTH DESERVE UR GRAND FINALLI!
SOMETIMES IT HAPPENS TO ME TOO TO GET CARRIED AWAY AND AFTER 5-6 ORGASMS DURING THE FOREPLAY WITH MR. GOODVIBRATIONS I FEEL LIKE I ALREADY HAD ENOUGH EVEN TOO MUCH AND THE INTERCOURSE IS REALLY SOMETHING I WANT TO END QUICKLY. THEN I PREFER TO FINISH MY HUSBAND ORALLY, COS HE NEEDS HIS PLEASURE TOO!! BUT, U SHOULD FIND THE BEST SOLUTION FOR BOTH OF U- BUT U CAN ONLY DO IT TOGETHER!
SO, GO FOR THE TALKING AND KEEP UP THE GREAT SEX!
2006-10-08 01:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sounds like when you say she's getting carried away she really is so much so that when your finnished with that and decide to make love to her she's already almost about done and can only take you for 5 mins. when your just getting warmed up.
How about not going so long on the vibrater so she still has something left to go longer with you the other way. Sounds like she's getting most of her fill from the vibrator and by the time your cooking she's about done.
So dont' take the vibrater away just judge where she is at that time and make your move away from the vibrator you may have to gage it a few times till you know when she's had enough and then you can begin doing your thing. start tappering it down a few mins. and so forth till you get it right. so then she has enough gun ho left in her for your time with her..
You said is it worth saying something to her. I wouldn't at first try this way above without her knowing. You just do it calmly like its no big deal and see how that goes. If she doesn't take the bite then you will have to talk to her about it.
2006-10-09 02:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure how long it takes her to get off then cut the forplay time, If all else fails get her close and pull out the vibrator out drop the batteries and walk away a couple times. Good for the goose good for the gander.
2006-10-08 08:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by alig8or_1965 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see how long it usually takes her to get her orgsasm then cut it off by ten minutes or so. :d
2006-10-08 08:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by cowboysfan4lyfe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say if your not finishing what you started theres a problem
finish what you started
2006-10-08 08:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. tell ur feelings to her
2006-10-08 08:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by abcdefg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have ya told her?????? may just be miscomunication
2006-10-08 08:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋