2006-10-08 01:12:36 · 14 answers · asked by anjalala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't it will never get better! You can be tactful. show him what to do. Please yourself in front of him, it will be good for both of you!
2006-10-08 01:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by m m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't speak, you will never get satisfied. If you do speak, you still might not. But it is up to you to take that chance. If you want him to know what turns you on, you must tell him. He cannot improve his love-making style until and if you do. On the other hand, he still may not. And yes, it could hurt his feelings. You have to decide whether to take that chance, for both your sakes, or not. I will hope for the best for you.
2006-10-08 01:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by harridan5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i learned from experience to speak up. If he's getting his and I'm not I'm saying something. The bonus (at least for me) is it pisses him off and he triples his effort over and over again. So I believe in speaking up. For the longest time I didn't and now I make sure I do. Sometimes I lie and say I didn't just for an encore :)
2006-10-08 12:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would talk to him about this if he is real close to you...some men do not care enough about the woman to even try to satisfy her...i hate a man that only thinks of his self...it is so frustrating...it is up to you though to talk to him or you will never be happy with your sex life...try to do it in a way that will not hurt him...are you putting all your mind in what he is doing to you...participate and talk with him about this subject...
2006-10-08 01:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not realy with you, but, if you are not satisfied go where you will be, dont know what you mean by heart ,but issume you mean will he reject you ,speak, and be heard ,you will know if he has heart then
2006-10-08 01:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Peter B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT'S THE BEST THING U CAN DO. U HAVE TO DISCUSS IT WITH HIM1 TELL HIM WHAT U LIKE AND WHAT TURNS U ON. HE MAY GET HURT, BUT IF U DO IT AT THE RIGHT TIME, WITH THE RIGHT TONE, HE COULD JUST ACCEPT IT. TELL HIM U ENJOY SEX WITH HIM, BUT YOU WOULD REALLY LIKE IT IF HE.... AND HERE COMES THINGS U WOULD WANT HIM TO DO TO U! ALSO SUGGEST TOYS!
2006-10-08 01:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Number one
2006-10-08 01:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by alig8or_1965 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends. How long have you been doing this guy? Have you already faked it? Are you planning on continuing this relationship?
2006-10-08 01:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by ฿└ΛÇκ ĦΘŁỀ ŞЏП 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will get hurt...its called growing pains. speak.
2006-10-08 01:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
suggest to him what you want and every time suggest a little more.
2006-10-08 01:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋