when providing an answer take account of the following:
-your spouse told you that it would never happen
-when u got out and u asked them they denied doing anything
-7 months after being out u find out that they did cheat
2006-10-08 01:08:39 · 13 answers · asked by taurus_boy25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when providing an answer take account of the following:
-your girlfriend told you that it would never happen
-when u got out and u asked them they denied doing anything
-7 months after being out u find out that they did cheat
I WAS THE ONE IN JAIL AND I KNOW I MADE A MISTAKE, BUT LOVE IS LOVE RIGHT???
2006-10-08 01:53:25 · update #1
no matter how you put that question, it is wrong to cheat on your other half,
2006-10-08 01:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is unconventional... but if you were in jail for a year... then I can understand why your Significant Other slept with someone else. Being in jail means that you are a felon... now that doesn't mean that cheating is RIGHT... .cheating for whatever reason is always wrong. However, given the circumstances... it is definitely understandable. Going to prison is a lot different than going away on business or for a deployment. Going to prison means you did something illegal... you made a choice that forced you to deal with the consequences, leaving the other person behind. That's wrong... and two wrongs don't make it right, but dang... their cheating in this instance is definitely understandable, especially if there were no guarantees that you'd be getting out in a year. Sorry... :(
2006-10-08 08:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....so the siginificant other got their cookies from someone else's cookie jar.....WHERE WERE YOU!!! (hmmmmm)......If you didn't want it to happen then you should've made better choices and not gotten locked up .......a year in jail for a STUPID crime...that YOU have the CHOICE not to committ....
I doubt very seriously this person who did the cheating was your SPOUSE....I don't believe the committment of marriage was ever done!!! You've been caught in a love crime when there was no committment (marriage)!!
You did the crime so you have to pay for the time you were in. Don't think the significant other should sit in jail to for the crimes you've committed by sitting at home looking at 4 walls for a year!
You want your cake and eat it too.....Next time think about what YOU"VE caused by the CRIME YOU committed...You know you had a choice ....and you chose the wrong one!
2006-10-08 08:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way it would be ok to sleep around on your spouse in that situation is if they are ok with it and you are ok with it. Every marriage has itsa own rules and boundaries it is all up to the couple in question what is right and wrong for them.
2006-10-08 08:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by souless one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im in iraq away from my wife for a year... so no. but on the other hand he cheated so thats a decision you got to make, id kick him out. he's an x-con and a cheat.
2006-10-08 08:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by cowboysfan4lyfe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it would not be alright regardless if he or she was in jail cheating is cheating regardless it's wrong either way.
2006-10-08 08:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, when someone cheats on me, all bets are off. You have at least one coming to you, yea cheat.
2006-10-08 08:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is cheating and if the love you, then they will wait for you for even five years
2006-10-08 08:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can anyone go without sex that long, sure they could fulfill their needs, as long as they come to popa when their out.
2006-10-08 08:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it's ok......if you're a lying, cheating, unfaithful jerk........ if you truly love someone, you'll never sleep with someone else other than her/him........ you'd be real patient and wait for your love........besides, sex isn't the only reason why you marry or love someone isn't it?......so if you truly love someone, seeing her/him will be more than enough........
2006-10-08 08:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by <--tsk--> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋