I gave birth just 3 months ago, had an episiotomy. The doctor says we can get back to normal life because its already healed, which means we can resume love making.. I just want to ask if any of you hurt everytime you make love with your husband. I am really in pain, more painful than when I lost my virginity. I am not enjoying it now.. And also, why I cannot get wet now, even if I am really horny and get pleasure with the touch of my husband..I really loved him, I wanted to spend a good sex with him..and if Im not enjoying because of the pain, how could I?Please advise..
2006-10-08 00:38:37 · 6 answers · asked by mean z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
vaginal dryness is normal after birth especially if you are nursing...lubricants are a sex-lifesaver
2006-10-08 00:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by kah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had 4 children and everytime i gave birth i had an episiotomy but it did not hurt when my husband and i resumed lovemaking. So i think it is safe to say that it is not the episiotomy that is causing your discomfort as long as you are sure that it is completely healed. I think that you have to go and see your doctor. Most probably, you have a yeast infection. try browsing over the internet on yeast infection. Hope this helps...
2006-10-08 07:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I had my first baby, I went back tp making love with my husband like 6 weeks after the baby was born. Much needed too. If you are having trouble getting wet maybe consider useing a lube so you are not so dry. It might still be sore for a little bit, but give it time. If after a little bit it still hurt so see your doctor about it and see what he says. Good Luck.
2006-10-08 07:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles_15_1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The episotomy that is used to butcher women....is the cause of all of this pain. You really need to seek out a plastic surgeon who is experienced with genitals that have been butchered by your OB/GYN!!!
The plastic surgeon can put you all back together again and you'll be as good as new!!!
2006-10-08 07:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not abnormal. Go slow use lube.
Wetness may or may not return.
Keep the lube at the ready.
2006-10-08 07:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal and takes sometime and if you want go and see a doctor
2006-10-08 07:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋