My partner of 8mths sent me a text message 6 weeks ago saying he could not do it anymore and was moving out. I know that i had a lot of past issues that i had not dealt with and maybe that was hard for him. I have since been to couselling and i am doing hynotherapy. I know i have completely changed my outlook on relationships. I have asked him to give me a chance to show him i have changed but he keeps saying he needs time. How much time is enough. How do i know weather to keep fighting? He has asked me not to contact him but it is so hard i think if i keep calling or sending messages saying how much i love and miss him he will just hate me in the end. But i think if i dont contact him he may think i have moved on.
I just want him back my life is so empty without him. I know that time heals wounds but he may also move on and forget about me.
HELP PLEASE
2006-10-08 00:34:24 · 7 answers · asked by Genine M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He told u not to contact him so why don't u just do what he asked u to do and leave him alone? If he wants to come back to u, he will be the one to call on u. Go on with your life and don't expect anything in return. When he's ready to try again, he will let u know. If not, then at least u were not just sitting around waiting on him and letting your life pass u by.
2006-10-08 01:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not easy but I would forget this guy if I was you,he sounds like he has moved on and you should try too. Sending you a txt to end a relationship is the cowards way out. I think hes just telling you he needs time to let you down gently.Hope everything works out for youx
2006-10-08 07:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to win back someone who texted you that it's over. Forget him. The eight months you will not get back, and the time he is stringing you along with now will pass too. Just do as he says and don't contact him. Respect him. And move on. Find something to do that you can put your heart into and forget he ever existed.
2006-10-08 07:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over as far as I can see, I'm sorry to say. It sounds like he's moved on. I suggest you do the same, keep up with the theorpy if you still need it. To be honest he doesn't know what he's lost, you must love him very much to do so much. I don't know who I feel sorry for more, you for losing him, or him for being so stupid as to give someone as loving and caring as you up!
2006-10-08 07:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dale P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has asked you not to contact him. That pretty much tells you how he feels. You need to leave him alone, and move on. Because it sure sounds like he has.
2006-10-08 07:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try, because even if you get back to him, it will never be the same. If you are sure that you have changed, then it is for sure that you will find another, with whom you can start a clean relation.
2006-10-08 07:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by Chichou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a men change his heart, i think you no need to do anything to win him back. if really give you win him back, he is really love you???it is true heart???
2006-10-08 17:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by ying 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋