beginning of the relationship or was it just a booty call?
2006-10-08 00:19:16 · 15 answers · asked by xman77 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
people don't take the phase, "for better or worse" to heart.. and if people don't take a vow to god to heart what kind of spouse could he/ she make????? marriage is ment to be forever i think, unless you are in danger, or god calls one of you home......but i know i am old fashion and what do i know?
2006-10-08 00:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of reasons why people change. Most of the time the reason why people fall out of Love is- If the couple is young and by the time they get older, they have matured and see things differently. The couple turn and look at each other and say" How did I ever Love this person in the first place"?
2006-10-08 08:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your in love with being in love. The beginning of a relationship is great. You need to find that spark again. People get divorce to easily now. You must have married for a reason. Find that one thing that set your world on fire with them and work with that. Marriage is hard work. Good times and bad. Dont throw in the towel when you have bad times. It makes you grow stronger.
2006-10-08 07:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships change. People can actually fall out of love. It happens everyday. No one marries a booty call, because they are already getting what they want free and clear, why complicate matters?
2006-10-08 07:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone until you find out what they are really like then you may change your way of thinking about them. They may put up a false image of them selves to win you over but the real person comes out and that may not be the type of person you thought they were and they may not be what you wanted after all/
2006-10-08 07:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you loved them. People change, which makes the relationship change and you can just fall out of love with a person. Or they weren't in love with them to begin with, they were just in love with being in love.
2006-10-08 07:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, personally do not beleive that you can "fall out of love". If you're truly "in love" with someone, it's FOREVER. You CAN however stop loving someone. But the truth of the matter is, if you don't love them anymore, you were never TRULY "in love" with them. You may have loved certain things about them, hell you may have just wanted to be "in love" with them so badly that you convinced yourself that you were....it happens. I've been there...for those people who say you cannot fool yourself, they are wrong......if you want to beleive something badly enough, you will. Good luck to you.
2006-10-08 08:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you loved her for a booty call,you really didnt see the real person,it takes time to see both sides of a person.
2006-10-08 07:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True, pure unconditional love can't be taken back, if you can say I don't love you anymore you are correct it was not true, pure unconditional love it was something else masked as love ... as you say "a booty call". True, pure unconditional love never dies.
2006-10-08 07:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you are male or female--and we all reserve the right to change our minds when we find out the others less admiral traits
2006-10-08 07:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by BrillantBABA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋