i'm tired of begging for his attention. "wait 'till i finish this this, wait 'till i get back..." it's so annoying. wasn't it?
2006-10-07 22:35:21 · 19 answers · asked by faye 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just take off for a week leave a note saying you'll be back and he shouldn't worry. Just leave your whereabouts with a good friend. He should pay attention to you and if he isn't, is he worth it? No woman should have to beg for attention - that's wrong.
2006-10-07 22:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.I know it would drive me nuts if I missed out on a Treat so ask once and Then go it alone , and especially when its something you know he will enjoy .but at the same time be respectful of the fact that he may be busy with a priority problem or task so be understanding . if he is not just ignoring you . Just get all dressed up and you go out to him and say are you ready and he replies for what . You get to say were you listening to me ? I told you earlier and you answered soon or wait a minute. well I'm ready Ill see you there .You need to let him know that you are not prepared to stand about and wait at his beck and call . He just might get the hint after he sees that you are annoyed enough to just give him a miss and go it alone .
2006-10-08 05:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends. Take a look. do you have anything outside your marriage that your involved in. Or do you just wait for your husband to come home. Maybe he feels like you are suffocating him. Back off a little. Start a project for yourself or a weekly night out with your girlfriends, Getting his attention would be easy because he hasn't had you right on top of him. Stop the begging that isn't healthy for anyone.
2006-10-08 06:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Walk around the house naked and act like it's no big deal even if his eyes are wide in incredulous shock. Please draw your curtains before you attempt this, or you might be getting more of your neighbors' attention.
Or move out (to your friend's place or a motel for a few days) and leave a note that says 'I'll be back when you're ready to give me the attention I deserve".
You will be sorely missed and he should realise what he's been missing.
2006-10-08 05:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by vintageprincess72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start filling your time and entertaining yourself. When he finishes this or that he will soon start to notice your unavailability. It will take a while but it works. I receive alot of attention from my spouse but sometimes it is smothering and he seems too needy. When that happens I withdraw from him and get "BUSY".
When he starts to be unavailable ; I begin to seek him out because I find independence very attractive. Maybe it is the same for you. I know it doesn't seem fair but none of us are perfect and sometimes we just have to compromise and do what is necessary to have a good relationship.
2006-10-08 07:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beg, find something of common interests and indulge in it. Don't play games like leaving or anything like that, that would show your immaturity. Sit down and explain the situation to him and let it go from there see where it leads you.
2006-10-08 05:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show u r fellings to him how much ul love him, care 4 him n trust him. He ll understand even u need same. When u find he is changed respect him n honour him. He ll find it intresting in being chaged n never become a looser before.
2006-10-08 06:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by pastakanasta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if it is that bad, he maybe cheating on you. I don't know how long you'll have known each other and been married but those are some bad signs that he is avoiding you and that ain't good. If you haven't tried putting on a romantic evening where you are looking provacative, then he is DEF cheating. This advice is from a man who has been cheated on. Hope it helps.
2006-10-08 05:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
.......and when you take off for that week away with the girls you can ' accidentally ' take his car and house keys with you. he'll be so lost.
when he says 'wail til i get back' tell him that will be TOO LATE. when he asks 'for what' then you can tell him you are ready for him to leave your home. for good. don't bother coming back.
or you could pack his suitcase and place it by the front door while he is doing what ever it is that he is finishing. when he's done, he can leave.
2006-10-08 07:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by craina c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The second he comes in the door from work or whatever, drop to those knees and get to blowin that pipe, honey! Or(this always works for me), wake him up in the morning with some head-then get to talking...There's something about a man receiving fellatio that weakens his knees and gets him to sit there and listen to you, even if he doesn't want to...
2006-10-08 05:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by mybootyisthatbig79 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋