What should I do?
2006-10-07 21:56:52 · 23 answers · asked by marincaligirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Does he have a mobile phone that you can ring?
For starters, I think you can just hope and pray that he is safe…
When you do see him again, explain to him that you were really worried about him, and that it would not have hurt him to contact you.
If you had disappeared without telling him where you were, he would have (hopefully) been concerned about you.
Tell him that it is a ‘sign of respect’ for him to let people who may be concerned for his safety know that he is OK !!!
2006-10-07 21:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do this allllll the time. I never call! Of course you should worry and if he has a cell phone just leave him a voicemail in hopes that he'll contact you back. However, it is a Saturday night and he's probably out having a good time with his friends and that's just (unfortunately) the last thing on his mind. At this age, it's all about having fun since you're considered to be an 'adult'. Also, call him in the morning and leave another voicemail as well.
-Nab and Amb
2006-10-07 22:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by think_tink86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 19. Don't worry about it. He probably just fell asleep at a friends place somewhere. Heck, I'm 20 and I do that all the time...then again I haven't lived with either of my parents in a few years...
2006-10-07 22:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 01:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by oberlander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he does come home just ask him politely if he could phone if he is not coming home as you worry that something may have happened to him. Explain that you are not checking up on him as he is old enough to have his own life but that you love him and get worried when he does not let you know that he is not coming home.
I gave up asking my boys what they were doing everytime they went out just asked them to let me know if they were not coming home so that I would not worry.
It is hard to let them have their own lives but we have to let go at some stage and respect that they are now independent human beings.
2006-10-07 22:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Born a Fox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son is of age now, but if he lives with you Then you need to put down some ground rules for him to follow.
2006-10-07 22:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by margie j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try to relax and hope he is safe. Pray and when he gets home kick his azz for being so inconsiderate!
Or you can call the police and local hospitals.
Doesn't he have a cell phone?
2006-10-07 22:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by easinclair 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you try calling him ? Asking friends if they've seen him ?
He's 19 so i think he must be pretty responsible to take care of himself..
If you're worried much report it to the local police..
2006-10-07 21:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by indie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he always call?
remind him of your feelings and to please next time call and tell you not to wait up because you can't help but worry. You DON'T need to know all the details, I meen he's an adult, just that he'll be home in the morning.
Hope he's ok
2006-10-07 22:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for 1 thing he is not on here or else he would of answered. it's OK to worry my parents do all the time wait until 24 hour then see if he is in jail or have sex your little man that is drifting away from you & there is nothing you can do. grandmother.
2006-10-07 22:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mexicool187 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋