Would you treat him/ her like a friend?
Or does society not like such unusual people?
No rude comments please. And no scriptures or preaching, please. I’m not saying all people are judgmental. It’s just that I have seen a lot of such cases. I’m just doing my own research, not slandering anybody.
2006-10-07 21:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by Yahoo user 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I have befriended several men like that. They seem to be outcasts but they can be very sweet guys and some do actually have desires but are afraid to act or speak about their desires. These poor guys get treated really badly by many people. I've heard lots of comments like if he doesn't want a woman it's because he likes sheep better. That's just nasty and we wouldn't do it to someone who was different in another area of life.
2006-10-07 21:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I always believe that in any friendship, it is the personality and the character more important than the rest. I don't mind that the friend of mine is not romantic nor doesn't have intimate desire but it is more of the honesty and trust I am looking for. The society have no right to dislike this type of people but most people will look at them differently just like that they are alien to this world.
2006-10-08 11:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do have a lot of male friends. I treat them just the same as I do my female friends, I flirt with both genders shamelessly and foolishly, I annoy both genders, drag both genders to movies they don't really wanna see, make both genders help me pick out a shirt to wear dancing, and hug both genders tightly in greeting and farewell. My mom has occassionally asked "Are you dating him?" when she meets my male friends, but no one really ever... viewed it as strange or wrong. I actually think its odd when I meet people WITHOUT at least one friend of the opposite gender.
2006-10-08 04:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by Suraya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With pleasure. As long as that person is honest, we share mutual interests, having fun & great conversations. The gender is not a problem. Meeting great people is challanging.
2006-10-08 05:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what your problem is.
Do you mean that in America that you can't have a male friend and not have sex. In my life I've had plenty of female friends and were never interested in "Banging" each other. It's called mutual respect.
Don't you have that in America?
Does that mean that if I have male friends that I'm a homo?
Americans are so hung up & strange.
2006-10-08 04:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, even I'm married most of my close friends are girls and we do not have romantic interests or intimate desires. If you are someone who can control yourself (not like dogs) and know what you talk, hold your tongue, then you can make friends with whoever.
2006-10-08 04:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I treat everybody like a friend until I am given reason to do otherwise.
2006-10-08 04:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by amber ɹəqɯɐ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course. a friend is a friend and some of the best are the ones you describe. why would you think society cares about this one way or the other?
2006-10-08 04:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by casey54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy friend? yeah it's cool if they know their limits
2006-10-08 04:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by the freakin' analyst 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋