Can anyone be kind and give me some advice?

Question

How should I tell a girl that I like her. I mean how to begin the conversation?

Thank you
Dr. Asker

Answer 1

Ok, that depends on two things. Are you or are you not shy when she's around?

Whether you're shy or not doesn't matter too much cause you've got to do what you gotta do. Here's perhaps how you should start. Modify it to your needs.

First, start with a 'Hi' or a 'Hey! Wassup' or if you're daring, say 'How you doin'?'. A normal hi, like how you call your friends.

Then an easy question, like 'how was your weekend?' or 'how you bin'?'. NEVER ask a question involving studies cause she'll think you're a nerd.

Then, a compliment. Make sure it's very polite and sweet and don't make it sound like you're interested. Ex- ' I heard that you're selected in the play, Congrats! Great work' or ' You've got an amazing voice, why didn't you tell me you sing so well?' Make her blush and feel like you're charming.

Then compliments on her dress. VERY important if you wanna succeed. ' I like your pants, where did you get them?' or ' What a really cool shirt, it brings out the colour in your eyes'. Ask questions which make them talk about themselves. They love that.

Then, you move in and ask a casual question, like ' So you're free this saturday, wanna hang out?' or ' I'm goin' out to a movie, wanna come?' If you ask nice and polite and all the above compliments work, and she likes you, she's bound to accept.

Then, you can maybe tell her that you like her or you've been interested in her for a while. Or else just end with a 'See you then' Buh! Bye' or 'Great! I can't wait'

See her expression. If she blushes, it means you've got your girl, but handle with care. If she just keeps a plain face, it means you're goin' too fast and you need to slow down.

But, from what I can assess from your questioning, I'd say you're a daring and bold person. So, don't worry, dude. No worries if you start out with a stammer, you'll eventually pick up and speak better.

Another important piece of advice. 'Play to your strengths and also play to her character' Make sure she knows what kinda guy you are. Don't boast, just prove it to her.

If she's, you know, bossy, then don't over rule her but don't become her slave. If she's kind & sweet ( which is how she should be ), then don't make her your slave, just make sure you pay lots of attention to her. If she's naughty but caring sometimes, be just like her.

Have as much as you can with her and she'll understand that you're a great guy to be around.

Also, don't compete with other boys or pick a fight in front of her. That'll form a bad impression about you.

Hope this helps you. Say what's in your mind, don't prepare a speech. Remember, you are who you are and you should be proud of that and you should make her understand that. Good luck

'All the best" :-)

Answer 2

If you know her you start out having a good conversation. Make her laugh and all that, be friendly but don't be long because you have a point to get to. Make sure your in private, the worst thing is people in your business. and you tell her that you have some imortant to tell her. Don't make it seem super serious like you have cancer or something but tell her be the person she knows and likes that you are felling her or that you like her.

Answer 3

Do she know you ? Then start by saying a simple "hai" . Then give her a rose (almost all girls are fond of roses) and tell her " this is for you my dear " romantically . Then tell her "I love you" . Make her know that you care for her . It is the very essential thing you need. Treat her friends as your own whether they are boys or girls. Don't be shy or get tensed when you converse with her.
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Answer 4

Begin with a smile - warmly and sincerely

sometimes eyes are much better than fancy words - no need to practise and prepare because u love her - there will be magic in between

good luck! Dr.Asker!

Answer 5

Man, i really don't know. in a way, i am in the same boat that you are. But i will say, if you and the girl don't already talk, you might just want to start with a conversasion like regular, if you've never talked to this girl before, it would be very wierd for you to just go up to her and be like , "hey, i like you". then her response would probably be something like, "and you are??"

Answer 6

well you don't need to begin with a conversation..just ask her out on a date..make her feel like you have this connection with her you dont want to let go of..then just start giving out some clues to ways that you like her for example, opening doors, doing things for her etc...she'll start giving in sooner or later and maybe you won't need to start with "how do you feel about me" because we girls know it when someone wants to be a part of our lives..at least some of us..showing that you care about her than anything else gives her the clue you really like her..not just that but you have to care for her in order to like her thats just how it works, not because she's pretty and popular but yeah...so just remember ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. nonverbal communications always work for me =) good luck now

Answer 7

Talk to her about anything just talk you don't need to tell her you like her right away show her you like her talk to her thats the best you can do if you didn't like then would you talk to her? well come on man are you man or a mouse?all girls want is to be talk to not at not about but to. Get it? I hope you do.

Answer 8

Put yourself out on a limb and take a chance. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.Try this;
Hey gorgeous I think you're really hot. Any chance of a date?

Answer 9

You need to start by flattering her, saying she looks nice etc. That will get her attention and know that you like her, it will pretty easy to see whether she feels the same by her response.

Answer 10

say this:
"i wanted to say something to you. the first day i saw you i have been willing to get something off my chest.i have been having these feelings, unexplainable feelings, i always smile to myself and have such beautiful images in my mind. images of me and you, walking, holding hands. i've been trying to tell myself, what is this? is it normal? then i knew, itz love, i love you, ur my world, if you leave me i'll never be able to live."
there, easy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!