First of all never say you're not very smart, cause that isn't true, people make harsh judgements sometimes they lack inner self awareness.
Don't feel like she won't like and respect you for who you are, why don't you try? all you have to do is be yourself, be confident, know you are a really wonderful person and you deserve good things to happen to you in life like everyone else, so make them happen, talk to her.
If she can't accept you for who you are then you don't need her and it's surely her loss and you will need to move on but do, try first, I wish you the best and remember, confidence, confidence.
2006-10-07 21:37:46
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answered by Nanci 3
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If she is really very smart she will be smart enough to know how to be a nice person, a good friend, and someone who isn't interested in how smart other people are.
If she is well behaved that's a different issue if, in general, you are not. If you're well behaved you don't have anything to worry about. If you're not, though, there is the chance that she would not want to be your friend because she may think she has nothing in common with you (if you may do things that aren't considered "well behaved" and if she doesn't want to get involved with someone who gets in trouble).
I don't know the girl and can't say for sure what you need to do to make her your friend, but treat her the way you'd treat any friend - talk, be friendly, and be nice. To people who are genuinely "really smart" being smart isn't a big deal.
If, by any chance, this girl doesn't seem to want to be your friend I fairly certain it won't be because of who is smart and who may not be quite as smart. It will be because of some other thing. (If she, by any chance, is someone who thinks she's too smart to hang out with people who don't seem to be as smart then - trust me - she isn't someone you want for a friend anyway.)
Final Note: Don't assume you aren't smart. Some people who are plenty smart don't get good grades in school; and sometimes girls who are "well behaved" are assumed to be smart just because of that. Just forget about "smart" altogether. It shouldn't matter at all.
2006-10-08 04:21:36
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answered by WhiteLilac1 6
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Charm her with what you are good at and not with what you are bad at. You must be good at something. You don thave to be smart. Im sure being smart or not has to do much in a friend relationship, of course unless you are really stupid.
2006-10-08 04:21:01
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answered by josepep1990 1
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My dear friend, first of all understand that friendship doesn't look for smartness; looks only smartness in ur heart - kind-hearted is the token for friendship and not the physical appearance...
2006-10-09 02:14:50
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answered by Shashang_99 2
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easy honey, girls dont mind a less enlightened person for a company as long as the person is not downright idiot. infact if u ask her something that she knows more than u do she will probably feel flattered( again no silly and idiotic questions).
and please dont ever make the mistake of sayin it to her face that u think she is more smart than u.
2006-10-08 15:02:07
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answered by freakin_fay 1
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ask her to date you.
let her make the decision, the worst that could happen is that she'll say no, which is about the same as your situation now, at best you'll find that she likes you despite your feelings of inferiority.
2006-10-08 05:19:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Give it a try and you are already smarter..forget the incident if it does not work and you are even smarter.
2006-10-09 00:55:06
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answered by Syntax 2
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If she doen't like you for who you are then she isn't worth it. You should never change yourself just to please another. That demonstrates a huge lack of integrity.
2006-10-08 04:06:20
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answered by wombatusium 3
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Just get rid of her otherwise she will do the same on you.
2006-10-08 08:04:54
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answered by Anikris 3
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