I'm in a long term relationship where I occassionally hang out with girls but my girlfriend does not hang out with other guys. She finds it unfair, and I agree. But when she does hang out with other guys I get overcome with extreme jealosy. How do I deal with this?
2006-10-07 20:47:48 · 10 answers · asked by aewrh alve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Jealousy is usually a result of insecurity. Work on feeling more secure in yourself. When you do feel jealous, look at what is truly behind that feeling (is it fear of losing her, fear of being left behind) and try to deal with that emotion instead.
2006-10-07 20:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust
2006-10-07 20:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it like this. do you want to date a girl who can't be trusted hanging out with other guys? of course not! you want a girl you can trust in any situation, right?
so how are you going to figure out which girls are trustworthy? by testing them and observing their behavior, of course! you will never know if she's trustworthy if you don't let her hang out with you guys. if you do, you will know whether to stay with her or dump her and find a trustworthy girl.
2006-10-07 20:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jelousy comes from insecurity, you need to work on that and realise that trust is the essents of your relationship. You need to believe that you are the one that she loves and not her male friends.
Would you cheat on her with your female friends? Probably not, so why would she cheat on you.
Good Luck
2006-10-07 20:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first- jealousy is favourite or perhaps shows which you care approximately somebody- yet too lots jealousy isn't good. yet do you even understand something approximately their courting, by way of fact danger is it probably wasn't a secret in spite of if it in simple terms wasn't substantial. have you ever instructed her something approximately your previous gf's? and don't manage jealousy with making her jealous. this is in simple terms stupid. Is she even speaking to him or seeing him? till she is throughout him or speaking to him or something- you shouldn't take it offensively that he exists and interior a similar section as your gf. in case you extremely need to handle it- then refer to her approximately it, yet don't get protective exceptionally in case you do not understand the substantial factors of the situation. So please- quiet down and don't do something out of jealousy of your lady pal leaving you for yet another guy, that could in simple terms screw up the courting you do have. in case you the two extremely love one yet another you should hear her, and you'll have confidence her.
2016-11-27 00:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the things that would alleviate your guilty conscience.
That's what causing your jealousy....You feel she is probably doing the same thing that you are doing. Stop flirting with the girls.
2006-10-07 20:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahh ummm...if you trust her...you just have to make a decision to get over it....take that energy and turn it into a night of passion. ;)
2006-10-07 20:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are in a serious enough of a relationship...you should be able to trust her...thats what you need..trust
2006-10-07 20:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and find someone you can trust
2006-10-07 21:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well just be to ur self and enjoy ur days as they come .
2006-10-07 21:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋