it wont set you free.dont want anyone else to be in your life.but there are no i love yous,when is time for se x youre just there.and everytime you try to leave,you just cant go anywhere . what in the world is wrong with people who do that kind of stuff.they swear they love you but where are the words of love,hugs,kisses,etc.
2006-10-07 19:52:17 · 15 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce ?
2006-10-07 19:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Often times men think that by having sex they are expressing feelings of love and that when you have sex with him you are doing the same. He doesn't realize that women need ATTENTION. Your solution might be as simple as communicating to him that he could do better in that department. But be nice. Don't be a nag. And whatever you do, don't cut him off or you will really have problems. Also, examine the way you are treating him. If you want to be treated like a queen, are you treating him like a king? When he (or you) comes home from work, do you lay your day's problems on him, nag him, etc. or do you greet him with a kiss, tell him your glad he (or you) is home, shower him with affection, go out of your way to do something nice for him? Some times you can change your spouses behavior simply by changing your own.
2006-10-09 03:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by HappyBoardRide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you love him or you wouldn't be with him, and although I would love to be treated as a sex slave, he must be lacking as you mentioned in the romance department, perhaps telling him is enough, maybe a letter if you feel awkward, but has he always been this way? You can't really change a person, so if he was try to decide if you think he wants to change, or is he happy with you being unhappy?
2006-10-08 04:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by petluvr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy with the way your relationship is there are options, if you care to save the marriage you both need to seek the assistance of a marriage counselor.
However, if you are fed up with the status quo, then you should get out of the relationship and find someone who will accept you on an equal level.
Staying in a relationship that you feel used in is not healthy
2006-10-08 02:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with people who do things like that? I'll tell you what's wrong with them. People like you who allow this sort of thing to continue, that's what's wrong here.
Stop being a doormat and get out.
2006-10-08 02:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
be the best you can be.If time and luck is with you the words of love,hugs kisses,ect,will not be far behind.good luck.
2006-10-08 03:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by stevienbd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So be the sex toy....no time to do the laundry or wash dishes. hehehe Prepare for his coming home mamasita! lol
2006-10-08 02:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as he is not mean, you should not complain because men are not always expressive. Even if they are expressive would u believe them.
2006-10-08 02:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by observer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is it when Women get married they think not having sex is ok ? Hell if I was him I would go find it somewhere else and find some.
2006-10-08 03:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by alig8or_1965 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
leave him and divorce him find a guy that will treat you as a queen
2006-10-08 03:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by robert899295 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋