ok, so i go to the gym a bit and the other day i just walked out of the shower, sat down on the bench to start getting dressed and this guy also just came out of the shower stoped infront of me and started speaking to me. normally there wouldnt be a prob but we were both naked and his cruch was cm's from my face.
i couldnt help but notice that he was a large man, if u no wat i mean. im not gay and this has never happened befor but i got a hard on while we were talking. i could tell that he noticed cause it got really weird.
what the hell happened, do i like men, should i think about having sex with another man to c?
2006-10-07 19:14:05 · 12 answers · asked by jake b 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
The guy got into your personal space. You probably were taken aback by him and did not know what automatically what to do. If it happens again, tell him to step back a little so you can dress.
No, when you have an erection like that, in that situation, that does not mean you are gay. What it means is that you were surprised that any guy with an ounce of respect for another man would do such a thing in front of you. He got into your personal space.
Men get erections in the strangest places and at the oddest times, especially young guys. Forget it. You weren't the one who did something impolite there -- that character in front of you did. Some guys just like to show off themselves in the locker room; others get so used to being naked around other guys they don't realize they are doing something that makes others feel uncomfortable. Whatever the case, we have to remind them to back off every once and a while. In this particular case, ignoring inappropriate locker room behavior just won't work.
Hope this helps. Don't dwell on you physical response to this jerk's behavior.
2006-10-07 20:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope you are not gay.
It was just an akward situation for you and you were just confused.Im sure with his **** facing you you were thinking of some woman giving him a ******** or something and you wre like in that position at the time lol so you just got arroused.No problem lol but first of all why were you both talking naked???]
Dont worry cause there in nothing to worry about lol keep it coool and you wont go insane.
2006-10-08 03:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT gay. You just happened to be in a weird situation, with a crotch cms from your face, your mind tends to play a few games with you. Gay, is a skinny classmate of mine who keeps staring at the arms of the hunks in my class. Now that's gay. So relax... as long as you don find yourself staring at other guys as you would stare at a hot gal, you're not gay.
2006-10-08 07:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by Leon til' Howlett Dlance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That used to happen to me when I was at Boy's town for stealing a car. Father Flannigan and I used to play hand Ball behind the Gym. After the game we would get undressed and shower up. He was a huge man, I swear the guy was part mule. It really creeped me out but at the same time I would find myself drawn to it. Usualy I would just stare at it and then get dressed and go to my dorm and hold my hands over a lit canndle to chase away the demons in my head. I was there for six months and to this day I can't go anywhere near the Weiner Schnitzel.
2006-10-08 02:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
hmmm.... sounds pretty gay to me.
Try not to talk to mens penis' for awhile until you figure it out.
Seriously though, there is nothing wrong with it if you are gay. Admitting it will help keep you sane. If you try to deny or hide things, they only get worse... and more obvious....
It can be embarrassing to be "obvious" in the locker room but that goes away... if you just keep it in your mind that the public locker room is not the place to think about sex - you will be just fine. Or you could join a gay gym if you live in a big enough city where they have one.
2006-10-08 02:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by rabble rouser 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't think it means you're gay. (Though you could be for all I know)
I think the guy was playing some game. HE was probably gay! I think having someone's crotch in your face would probably have the same effect on anyone!!
What do you mean, "really weird"?
2006-10-08 02:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by survivor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is wow.
if your telling me your not gay im going to take your word for it.
the only thing i can think of isthat you were in such a weird situation in the first place (some dude just stands in front of you with his crotch in your face) your mind just kinda confused your genitals because of the sexually awkward situation
2006-10-08 02:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm batting both ways..even if you liked that moment it's fine man..just relax, do what u like..shdnt be any guilt.
Email me if u wanna chat up..
2006-10-08 13:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Delhi_Boy_Hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm, If I were you, I'd deff think about taking a walk on the wild side. I mean, there's only one way to find out. Of course, you can just rent some gay porn and see if it gets you off....hope it all comes out o.k. for you in the end.....good luck ;)
2006-10-08 02:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by djjoecruz 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should have gone to the steam room to see if he would follow.
Don't worry about what to do....if he "posed" right in front of you, he'll probably take the lead....
2006-10-09 04:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋