If you got into a relationship w/ a man who told you that his work would requires him to be away from home for 2 weeks at a time , you bide through 2 weeks isnt all that long , then suddenly he chooses to work a month straight at a time. Would you be angry ? When you were promised only 2 weeks at a time.
This isnt a just bf , it a S/o w/ whom you are having a child with.
Would you feel mislead ?
2006-10-07 19:11:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Work or no work , he dosn't provide for my finances. I do.
2006-10-07 19:19:23 · update #1
yes i would be.... you get no time with him!
That can destroy a relationship!
2006-10-07 19:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by stress77mulah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, if its out of his control such as the military or a job where the boss says do it or you are history, well, you cant blame him for doing it because obviously he knows he has a woman and a child on the way to support and must work.
However if there are not circumstances such as this and he volunteered to do the extra time it might mean he doesn't want to be around you as much anymore and is avoiding intimacy.
2006-10-08 02:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, kind of. Maybe you should ask him where he is, and to make sure, pay him a visit. My mom's husband takes business trips a lot and he sometimes extends it. She has 4 kids, including me. She trusts him really well, because she chats with him everyday on the phone and they send text messages to each other quite often now that they each have a blackberry. Try checking on him every other day.
2006-10-08 02:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is a one time deal then no - he would just have to make it up to me.
If its all the time, but then he gets more time off between working, then maybe it would be ok. But he would have to make it up to me :)
Mislead yes. But not furious. He's working right?
2006-10-08 02:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by PinkPrincessNerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think maybe he is choosing to work more to make more money for the baby you are expecting? Have you asked him why he started working more? Have an open talk with him, get the answers, then make your decision.
2006-10-08 02:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by Linda P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just answered your other question.
Actions are what matter, and this dude has run out on you.
He makes his decisions independent of consideration of you.
You must do what is best for you and the baby, and move on. From now on, only look at what a guy does, it is easy to talk.
2006-10-08 02:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very much like he has someone on the side. If he is not a truck driver or something that normally requires a lot of travel I would not trust him .
2006-10-08 02:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very angry, and I would probably end up leaving him. AFter all, if you wanted to be alone, you could just stay single, but atleast have options.
2006-10-08 02:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a little mest up
he goes to work leaves you sometimes for two weeks and you are having his baby and he doesent pay anything?
well its gonna be really hard for you if he is going to be in your feuture cause it might have to alwyas be like that. tlk to him.
2006-10-08 02:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by BabyGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know what he did before things got serious?
If so, you need to learn to live with it.
2006-10-08 02:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally i definatly would make him quit that job and find another hell no would i let my man leave for 2 weeks job or not!
2006-10-08 02:14:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋