my girlfriend stopped having sex with me, she says it hurts. she also wont do anything to get me off, but makes me get her off. what should i do?
2006-10-07 19:03:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Um... talk to her directly not yahoo answers buddy. You need to talk to he about your "needs" and she'll respond.
2006-10-07 19:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need to find out why it hurts for her. Go see a doctor, and try to get this sorted. I would guess that you care enough about her to have posted this, so go see a doctor and try and get it figured out. It could be an emotional thing too, which is why she's not doing anything for you. Just try to be patient with her, and support her. This might be the best way to show her you care, and as a result, get satisfied too. Having said that, don't leave it there. You both need to find out the source of her pain. Good luck.
2006-10-08 02:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by * tj * 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How bizarre. Hurts who? If she makes you get her off, then she's obviously not hurting to bad. If she's not getting you off, then you must be the one that's hurt, right. Tell her that by her depriving you of sex that it's hurting you and that you heard, that having orgasms helps take pain away. Get busy man !
2006-10-08 02:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop getting her off if you are not being pleased also sex is a two way street you know thats not fair to you then when you go else where you are wrong right and just so you know this is all female here(smile) good luck
2006-10-08 02:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by reddiwhip2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go to the doctor & stop giving her what she wants until she can satisfy you too.
2006-10-08 02:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by Nattie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get her off
2006-10-08 02:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go to the doctor. That isn't normal.
2006-10-08 09:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl
2006-10-08 02:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
move along
2006-10-08 02:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by tomiyo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get another girlfriend.
2006-10-08 02:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋