enough for hi. what can i do?
2006-10-07 19:01:09 · 17 answers · asked by BabyGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, this just came to me when I read your post. I have dealt with this situation in the past and almost nothing works except walking out. But try this: get some porn of your own. Even if you don't really like it, just, "oops" leave it lying around the house. Get some trashy novels or magazines for women with men in them and don't parade it around, almost hide it from him. See how he likes it. I'll be dying of curiosity to see if he changes his tune..
2006-10-07 19:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. If your boyfriend is watching porn, then he has a problem. A big one. He's addicted and he never will really pay attention to you or any other girl until he cleans up his act. Dump him pronto, or you'll be feeling worse as the relationship progresses. If you've talked to him and it bothers you and he still does it, he's a jerk. Seriously a jerk and doesn't care much about anyone but himself. Porn is about self gratifaction and is SELFISH. If he loved you, he would be gratifiying you and you him; and he would not need to be selfish. If he brushed you off, he is very selfish and not worth it, sweetie. Leave him.
2006-10-08 02:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Accept the fact that your boyfriend watches too much porn and doesn't care about your feelings.
2. Dump him.
Your choice. If you don't like it or it goes against your morals, you need to make a choice. You can try 3. nag him and cry and beg him to stop and feel bad and wonder if he's still doing it, but ultimately, you only have 2 choices.
2006-10-08 02:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for that, I dont know what it is about some guys and watching porn. Me and my girl sometimes watch it but thats the obly time i ever see porn. There is somethign wrong there. thats weird
2006-10-08 03:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by emostargaizer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I watch some soft porn. Would watch hard porn on occassion. Have seen it on some people's 360's here on Yahoo. But, no, it's not an obsession. I guess I feel for you. Sorry.
2006-10-08 02:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watching porn isnt a "guy thing" , that is a terrible excuse which most of us have used. If it makes you feel uncomfortable, do what my girlfriend (now wife) and tell me to stop because it is hurting our relationship. I listened and she is happy. If he doesnt want to listen to how you feel then he isnt for you.
2006-10-08 02:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jonny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think about 90% of all men have a real problem with porn. get used to it. that's what all my ex boyfriends and current boyfriend does. also, my father has a problem with porn so it's like all guys of all ages.
2006-10-08 02:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Valerena 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend watches porn because he likes porn, it has nothing to do with you.
2006-10-08 02:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he would rather watch porn instead of pleasing you, dump him and find someone who is going to pay attention to you.
2006-10-08 02:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by dsoltjr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That guy need to go. Hell if he loves the porn that much him and his hand will make it on their own
2006-10-08 08:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by tabjank 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋