my younger sister is 16 and i noticed shes been sneaking out the house everytime i go to bed.she lives with me because our parents couldint control her. shes rolling in at 5 and 6 in the morning. when i ask her were shes going she just tells me to **** off and leave her alone. one of her friends is worried about her saying my lil sis has a boyfriend of 27 and they have had sex. im so worried about her. i know shes young but i did the same things as her ast that age and now im a mum of 1 at just 19. shes much smater than this but what do i do
2006-10-07 18:56:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Follow her and have the guy arrested for having sex with a minor. You have to stop this now because she is heading nowhere FAST!
Best Wishes!
2006-10-07 19:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off: She's 16, He's 27??? Follow her, or have her "tailed", and make sure you can get a bobby quick, as this is probably stat rape in your country.
Second: Set her down and establish new ground rules, and stick to them. Otherwise, she is going in your footsteps, and needs to get ready to hear the word "mum" from her small child-to-be as a result of her behaviour.
She is a teen-ager, yes. But, she lives in your home. She needs to respect your rules. Otherwise, she respects nothing, least of all herself. Get her help if she won't listen to you, and if needed, she may need to be placed in some strict rigid environment to steer her straight in these rough waters.
2006-10-08 00:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mudcat007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who were you with at the Opera? I am thinking you weren't alone. WHy didn't you just keep to you and your companion. White people are not always as bad as you are making them out to be. I think you are either trolling or are paranoid. I see pervert black man everywhere and I don't come on here asking why they are like that. Even my ex who was black said it about black men too. They will hit on a girl while she is with her kids, in the grocery store, gas station, they have no scruples and do not care. I even had 1 guy follow me in line at Walmart. I kept seeing him eying me. I even told my 10 year old son. Then he chased my car down down the road asking me for my number, with my son in the car. Loser!
2016-03-28 01:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock the house up so that she can't get out. Use deadbolts that you have to have the key to turn the lock and then take the key with you. Nail her window shut. Tell her that you mean business. And if she doesn't like it she can go live with the boyfriend.
2006-10-08 03:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by kholbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes unfortunately a lot of us go through this stage, men are too fickle, a girl needs to make herself financially independant before bothering with men
just have a friendly sister to sister chat, tell her she has to give you respect otherwise she can leave, u dont have to take any disrespect from her
if you come to a mutual agreement try to get her interested in a home biz, when men desert us, then us girls should always have our own money!!!
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2006-10-07 19:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hand her a box of condoms and tell her to use them. seriously thats all you can do unless you bolt her window and lock her in her room. find out who this guy is and have him arrested but don't tell her that you did it. she will just think that he moved on until the court date and by then she may have a younger bf . good luck .
2006-10-07 22:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK,Tell her as long she is in your house she will not talk to you like crap and you will call the cops the next she comes in late and will report her older pervert boyfriend and if she gets mad let her stay mad.
2006-10-08 03:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's living under YOUR roof and tells YOU to **** off when you ask what she's doing?? Come on.....You're not doing her any favors!
2006-10-07 19:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you said that u were the same when u were her age, just think of what would have stopped you and do it to her.
2006-10-08 10:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just goes to show how promiscuous, pedophilic and morally depraved the modern Brits are.
2006-10-07 18:59:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋