We were together before she was pregnant but had just begun our relationship, could she really not care about me at all if we never had any problems before, but now she doesn't show me any interest besides calling me everyday and making sure i have lunch for work, no hug, no kiss, not even a goodbye or ttyl
2006-10-07 18:50:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No but before she was pregnant she couldn't spend a minute without me, I was into her but not as much as she was into me, and now its the other way around
2006-10-07 18:54:03 · update #1
I've been supportive since the begininng of the pregnancy and I make sure she has everything she needs from cravings to her lunch and dinner, I know shes not cheating but I don't understand how it could all change so quick..
2006-10-07 19:12:13 · update #2
If she is having bad "morning" [aka all day!] sickness, then the LAST thing she would want to do is cuddle and make nice. Ask her, and she might vomit on you to answer :P hehe seriously, some girls just get like that. Don't feel her boob or anything when you're asking; bring her a slurpee or something that she seems to be drinking lately [tip - something that probably won't make her sick] and ask her nicely.
2006-10-07 18:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by PinkPrincessNerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it crossed your mind that all she wanted was a baby?
I am pregnant with my 3rd baby and I am more excited that its apart of my husband then anything but within saying that I do know someone who was in a relationship, that seemed fine but she stayed with him for a few months after falling pregnant as they had a few miscarriages, now she wants nothing to do with him because it was just to have another baby. This is very nasty and self centered.
Another thing she must care about you alittle to call to make sure you have your lunch, that sound very odd to me if she wants nothing to do with you except making sure you eat? Pregnancy does take alot out of a women and sometimes they turn into a completely different person this can be because of the hormones but not always.
How did you reacted to her telling you she was pregnant?
2006-10-08 02:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by mj_missi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , Feelings and pregnancy do not always go together at all. It sure is nice if its that way but , its defiantly not a have to. Then again I doubt this is her case with you . I know pregnancy makes people moody and she could have alot on her mind with a new baby and all so maybe you should just try and sit down and have a good talk with her about all of your concerns. I think things will work out OK with both of you i think shes got alot on her mind now plus all those new emotional feelings a pregnant woman gets.. Good Luck
2006-10-08 01:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens sometimes, especially in the begining of the pregnancy. Things will definitely change towards the end. It is just a phase that women go through sometimes. Hang in there the hormones will get back in tact and all will be well.
Best Wishes and Congrats on the baby!!!
2006-10-08 01:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it could be a few things...she could be really wrapped up in her pregnancy, her child and be a bit absentminded about other things. could be that you two had just started a relationship and then poof! you skip all the lovey-dovey stuff and oh look, honey, we're having a baby! it might just be overwhelming and her way of dealing with it is to withdraw into herself. just be patient and give her time. congrats though!
2006-10-08 01:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by FairyPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Happens all the time. But hang in there and try to find out whats going on. If you find out shes playing games then I suggest you walk away. Been there and it realy sucks and is very painfull.
2006-10-08 01:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by rabatvilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG YES! I couldnt give 2 shits about my babys dad at all, come to think of it he was rather a nuissance throughout my pregnancy.
I dont really do anything either, like hugs or kisses, I havent kissed him in like 3 years and I dont miss it.
2006-10-08 01:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes....children are the result of sex... they did not ask to be here , yet they pay the price when relationships fail or were merely flings that should have never been...
2006-10-08 01:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by curious dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her hormones are getting messed around since she's pregnant and don't take it personally
2006-10-08 22:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by b h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has she said she doesn't care about you?
2006-10-08 01:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by joann p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋