I recently came out and everything is going well, but I have a sexual problem. I've just started allowing my boyfriend to penetrate me, but whenever he does, I defecate. Is this normal for first timers, or should I go to the doctor's?
2006-10-07 18:32:02 · 12 answers · asked by matt 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Yea ok, I saw your other questions and it seems like your a perv but if u are speaking the truth man have you got a lot of sexual problems!
2006-10-07 19:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by one 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Normally, when this activity is planned, you should have an enema (jets of water introduced into the rectum to evacuate bowels) so that it would not be frustrating for you and your partner. Once you feel that you have deposited the contents of your bowels and you feel clean, then you're ready for it. A good lubricant will give total stimulation and penetration would be smooth and easy. You have to relax your muscles and condition your mind and body while being penetrated in order for you to achieve total satisfaction. Good luck!
2006-10-07 18:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Scent of Nutmeg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay let me get all this straight. I have just read ALL your questions.
Within an hour you thought you might have raped a girl.
Then masturbated with a friend and he came on your face.
Your dad caught you and stuck his finger up your butt
and then a second later you came out and everything is fine but you have problems when doing anal sex.
Hmmm.. I'm not a psychiatrist but my prognosis would be that you are FULL OF SH|T.....
2006-10-07 22:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi, you are fine. The next time before you do the deed, you need to give yourself an enema. That way you'll be all clean and ret-ta-go. Wishing you 'Happy Endings"....... ;)
2006-10-07 18:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by djjoecruz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of that after sex, but before sex yes. I don't think that it is a problem but you should just make sure. Maybe it's just your body being overstimulated.
2006-10-07 18:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by cheeeeeezymouse25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, there is only one way. clean yourself up before engagng in anal sex. and i recommend this book (got it as a gift ) - the ultimate guide ti anal sex for men by bill brent. it's a serious, step by step book for men who wants to do it.
2006-10-07 20:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Russ Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try having a colon cleansing an hour before you expect to be with your boyfriend.
2006-10-07 18:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great Scott!!
2006-10-07 18:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to always remember to empty your bowels before intercourse
2006-10-07 18:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the bathroom before you ****
2006-10-07 18:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by alvarezeliseo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋