we used to be very playful and im a playful person but now everytime i try to be playful with her she gets mad and say's im annoying it feels like everything i do anymore is annoying to her and its starting to push me away i feel like she is so serious lately all the time, what would you think? we have been together for almost 2 and half years if that makes a difference in details
2006-10-07 18:07:32 · 11 answers · asked by blueeyes3313 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Shake it up a bit. Do something different with her. Try something new.
Maybe she has something on her mind. Just because she's a woman doesn't automatically mean she's going to be a perfect communicator..
Maybe she's stressed and doesn't share it with you for some reason? I know I tend to hold back with my girlfriend, because I'm a "worrier" and she is not... so often I don't seen much point in bringing it up.
Maybe you have "too much togetherness"? It's possible. All couples need individual "breathing room" to just be alone or hang out with friends from time to time. It's healthy and normal. It took us about 2.5 years of constant togetherness for this to sink in and be obvious though. ;-) Maybe 2.5 is the magic number.
2006-10-07 21:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she's gotten bored in the relationship-i am going through something similar with my g/f.I have been with her going on almost 4 years. She has changed-i wonder if after your with someone for a long time this happens-everybody says with lesbians it starts at about 2 years,and girl i believe it! I too am a playful person but my g/f is a serious person all the time,i try to overlook what;s going on-but it really bothers me,I wish you the best-hope things work out for u!
2006-10-08 02:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
blueeyes3313,
It sounds like a time to change to normal scene. Not to give up. But I have to ask, how long has this behavior been going on?
It better not be a few hours old! lol
I would get to a quiet place with her that didn't have other people around. That way you could ask her a question about what you need to know, and wait a long time for the answer if necessary.
2006-10-07 19:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all change as we get older Perhaps your friend is a little more mature at this stage of her life Dont worry you'll both adjust to the changing times,and enter a new phase of development.May'be soon you'll have different friends.Hey don't worry remember yesterday when everyone believed in santa claus.
2006-10-07 18:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to consider couple counseling to find out why you are not communicating. It might be the end of your relationship or things might just be growing and you two don't have the skills to recognize that. Relationships don't stay stagnant and survive. Talk to her about how you feel and then suggest counseling. If she doesn't want to go, that might be an indication of her true feelings and perhaps you should move on.
2006-10-08 02:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well people change over the years and they like different things at different times, i will just say do not give up.
2006-10-07 19:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by sillylance 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say, blueeyes. Maybe it's a personal issue of your girlfriend's that she needs to resolve. Or maybe she wants out of the relationship. Either way, you need to confront her with the problem so that you may find out where you stand with her.
2006-10-07 18:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by Irish Eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you clarify to her precisely what got here approximately and tell her she's being over dramatic approximately each little thing? you adult men are young little ones, and teen women tremendously tend to make circumstances so plenty extra dramatic than they are truly. clarify to her what got here approximately earlier contained in the day, if she would not respond provide her it sluggish to think of.
2016-10-02 01:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by lashbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my favorite quote,: Sometimes we act like a beast to kill the pain of being human!" Is it you .... probably not she probably has a personality complex with herself.. do you still have sex with her? Doesn't sound like it. Lesbian Bed Death!
2006-10-08 17:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of maybes.ask her.sounds to me she's lost interest.
2006-10-07 22:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋