2006-10-07 18:04:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
For me it was getting saved. It brought a lot of hatred I had for myself out and I had to deal with it.
2006-10-07 18:09:21 · update #1
Worst and Best:
Coming out to all of my friends. It took off a lot of stress. It was a great experience because everyone was so supportive and a lot of the girls were happy to have a gay friend (haha, funny how that works.) All of my guy friends were understanding although I did lose a few ( I knew it would happen). It was painful because I did get ridiculed by those homphobic idiots, but they know not to mess with me now..*laugh*
2006-10-07 18:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by la_z_boi68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it was finding my girlfriend. I've never been at such peace in a relationship in my life.
I'm glad that being saved brings you this same peace. Whenever hear that though I tend to think of something that happened to me as a child in gradeschool that stays with me.
We went on a field trip to a bakery. We were given free samples of all the products including fresh hot bread. Most people understand that there is a difference in eating a piece of bread that is old and cold and a piece of hot freshly baked bread.
I ate mine with abandon. It was a great experience, I don't think I had ever had hot fresh bread (victim of the 50's/60's where everything came out of a box or bag). I looked around and all the other girls were wrapping theirs up to take home for later. They made fun of me for eating my bread and I told them that I would rather experience the sensation of joy and satisfaction at the moment it was presented to me rather than waiting until it was old and stale and just the same as the slice from the bag on the counter.
So you are saved for later, and you'll probably make a good sandwich. But what about now when you are fresh and hot and enjoyable? Your god made you for the here and now as well, are you appreciating that fact?
2006-10-08 02:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a combination of things, I got a GREAT job. But (and I know this is gonna sound weird) but one of the best things that happened to me was I got dumped.
I got dumped by the woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. It hurt at the time of course, but she came crawling back to me and I told her hell no!
It was a good thing because it made me see how truly selfish she was and what kind of person she really was. I put her first in everything and she put herself first in everything. If she hadn't dumped me then I would still be in love with her like an idiot.
She left me much wiser and gave me invaluable experience when it comes to women. Now that she's out of my life, my bank account is nice, I am buying a house, and I am focused on finding the RIGHT woman for me.
So I can say that her dumping me was one of the best things that ever happened to me!
2006-10-07 18:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by angelajock 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A combination of many things which made up the love I shared with my partner. Lately, finding the ability to forgive people for hate filed treatment of my beloved and myself. Since that moment I have regained a quiet serenity I believed was lost for ever.
Best wishes, Rose P.
2006-10-07 18:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by rose p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hunny im sorry. in certainty for me its a compilation of issues over the years. its humorous to work out this right this moment because of the fact its been 2 years on condition that my nephew died. he develop into 18 then. he's in basic terms one year older than me so we've been kinda close even nevertheless we are residing a pair states away.. however the year earlier that one in each of my neices had to have rods placed down her backbone. the year earlier that my sister have been given her legs amputated. oh and this year the sister to my nephew that died. she found out she has techniques maximum cancers. so yeah in certainty all of that. then you certainly upload on the every day drama and stuff. oh and my chum at artwork her maximum suitable chum and little female have been given killed friday. yet surely i dont comprehend which concern is the Worst.
2016-10-02 01:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by lashbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming into my own with security in my own identity...have had two fantastic lovers in my life, each very long term, jewels...both of them. My own business being a huge success has not hurt anything either, has given me a very good life in Southern California, two terrific, successful sons that I am very close to...so many thing to be thankful for, and now, many friends here on Yahoo. Good luck to almost all here...there are a few that have their own hell to live in, but don't include me in that ilk. goldwing110083 (the real one)
2006-10-07 18:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being hugged and accepted when I came out to my friends. I was a little nervous, and it felt good to get it out there. Now life is fantastic....Now if only I could meet a hot girl here at school who didn't have a girlfriend and is gay...Keep hoping for me!
2006-10-07 18:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My stomach got paralyzed. I tried to commit suicide but the pills just stuck in my stomach for about 6 hours and lots of them didn't even dissolve. Most of the time, I'm very glad that I wasn't successful.
2006-10-07 18:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing so far in my life was coming out because not only did i come out about being gay, I got alot of other baggage off of my chest and when I did I remember sleeping so good and hadn't done that in a long time.
2006-10-07 23:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love your answer! For me it was having my daughter - by a long shot - then meeting my partner, my first true promotion, buying my first house, seeing my daughter smile, calling my mom to tell her I love her, being able bodied, hugging my dogs. Pretty boring, I know!
2006-10-07 18:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋