Aww man i tried everything. I even sent her a letter telling her all the wrong things about her, in a nice way, like ..."you need to change this" or "why are you like that"? Seriously i'm not a bad guy but this girl is soo annoying and clingy, this is the first time in my life i have ever said anything bad about a girl and this is the only time i have ever been this desperate to get rid of someone! Please how can i do it in a way that i don't seem like the im the devil?
2006-10-07 17:42:52 · 12 answers · asked by undecided_guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If nice didnt work, its time to get rude and make her understand shes a piece of poo and you want nothing to do with her...Being nice to this one will only get you more attention from her...Put your foot down, be a man....
2006-10-07 17:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your positive you've done everything you can the nice way, then I'm afraid that it's time to break it to her truthfully. You need to approach her, face to face (not online or via letter, that wont get your full point across as well as full confrontation), and say something of this sort.
"Look, your a wonderful girl (no matter if you think that or not), but I really need some time apart from you. I feel suffocated, and I think that it's best we take some time apart for a while."
Also, even if you hate the girl, I'd highly suggest that you dont ever, ever say something like "you need to change this" or "why are you like that?" to a girl or a guy. That is NOT a nice way, I would cry if someone told me that. It doesn't matter the situation, I'm sorry, but thats flat out mean. What if I told you that you needed to change? You would say hell no, I dont need to change to please you, right? You're basically pointing out this person's problems, and thats absolutley horrible. You dont want to be known as the S.O.B. Take it easy.
Good luck with her, and if talking to her doesn't work, then avoid her as best you can, and even talk to your counselor about it, and he could possibly talk to her about leaving you alone for a while.
2006-10-07 17:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be rude, but beating around the bush and sending her a letter like that IS being rude. The next time she calls, just tell her point blank that you would appreciate if she didn't contact you again. Be straight forward!
If the situation was reversed, wouldn't you rather a girl be straight forward with you, instead of doing rude things like sending nasty letters?
2006-10-07 17:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by faithinaction1465 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you that much no matter what u do she is gonna hate you so the best way is to tell her that you dont know what you want right now and that you need space its not her but you just need time to figure things out and if you are a student tell her you have alot of work to do ( i know its lying but if you wanna spare this gurls feelings then there has to be a lil fib) or you could just avoid her and let it fade like most guys do...good luck
2006-10-07 17:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luk....if u really feel tht girl is being very sort of irritating person...then i think u shud simply tell her....not in a polite way but in a rude way...u ve to do dis to get rid of her!
Well u wrote a letter but tht wasnt enough...not tht sufficeint to get rid of her..u were in a polite way......which was sure tht u never wanted to get rid of her....wht i think is u shud tell her face to face in sum rude noise.......just type of warning! May b in dis way she'll not talk to u coz she'll feel tht yes u r no more interested in her! N then whenever she sums to u just avoid her!!! AVOID! IGNORE! Just dese words r to b said .....
2006-10-07 18:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Neha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some BALLS You Loser. Just tell her to go away and leave you alone. And tell her she is too clingy.
2006-10-07 17:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by stu_padidiot2005 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her that you don't feel the same way and that nothing she changes will help that. or just get a restraining order...haha
2006-10-07 17:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are not interested in being with her anymore and then IGNORE HER!
2006-10-07 17:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by justthetwoofus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit on her best friend ,who will tell her, then her ego won't let her pursue you.
2006-10-07 17:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by luther 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u try some itch powder on her.
2006-10-07 19:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋