Cant seem to get an honest answer. Black women help...?

Question

Why is it that most black women stare and get mad when they see me with my man of 8 years who is black (I'm white). My best friend Ne Ne doesnt care but she seems to be the only one! Im in Kansas but I'm sure its not only happening here.

Answer 1

i live in kansas and used to date a black man myself. i know exactly what you are talking about. it's probably because black men, especially the ones that are worth a damn, are hard to come by in kansas. i guess they feel that they would be better off with them. it's ridiculous.

Answer 2

Kansas thats all u had to say there r like what 2 or 3 black people in the state. LOL I would stare too

Answer 3

whats up girl....anyways i really hate that you have to run into ignorant ppl like that....but as a blk woman i have no problem with seeing a white woman with a blk man...cause i believe ppl have a right to be with whoever they want...however there has been cases where i have been at the store and a interracial couple will look at me or come stand by me for an enormous amount of time just to see if they are going to get a reaction out of me...and see sometimes this may be the case...see when you think that most blk women are staring at you and getting mad...that may not be the case sometimes.. you only see what you want to see because thats what you already expect of us...see when ppl have a bad experience with a few out of a certain group....most of the time they take it out on the whole group...sometimes i think it's the interracial couples with this problem..because your already probably going through enough as it is...but next time you ask this question please don't leave out your race...because alot of blk men have lost their life just for dating a white woman....so just don't always direct your questions torwards blk women...take care sweetheart.

Answer 4

each and every man or woman is all diverse and the diverse pores and skin colorations and genders might want to by no skill be stereotyped. I extremely have six daughters, 1/2 followed and 1/2 the perplexing way, and they have taught me what a weapon of mass destruction extremely is. women people are women people and must be feared and obeyed in all issues.

Answer 5

Me personally I never cared what people think about me, people are going to talk, and look at you even if you had someone that was white so never worry what people say about you just be glad that u and ur mate get along.Always remember people are going to be people everywhere u go because, its like that where I am (in FL) so just love ur mate and be happy forget people they are the ones with the problem not u.(GOD BLESS YOU AND UR MATE RELATIONSHIP)

Answer 6

a lot of black women get mad cause they gotta blame somebody for them not being able to get a good man. i know you've heard the stereo-type that once a black man becomes successful the first thing he does is go and get himself a white woman and ignore the poor pitiful black girl that had to help him through his struggles in order to be successful. if i were you i wouldn't give a damn enjoy your man them tricks just jealous. i really wish people would go color blind when it comes down to relationships

Answer 7

I don't know, they just mad cause the don't have a man.
& I don't think it matters what race they are.
& I'm glad you said most.

Answer 8

some people r just jealous..just hold u head up and go on...

Answer 9

jealousy

Answer 10

It just doesn't look right.