He has no values or morals. I want to forget him. He is disrespectful and rude and I let myslef get too close to him. I don't need advice because I will let time heal. This is more of a "learn by example." If you crave someone, it is wrong. You should be comfortable and not depedent of him because you will get used in the the end. He will use you for something and to his benefit. The best advice is be independent and work individually.
2006-10-07 17:34:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Always forgive. It makes you happier.
Never forget. If you do, you may get hurt the same way again.
2006-10-07 17:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Gaspode 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard, but try not to paint all guys with the same "user" brush. They aren't all like that, I promise!! My husband was so good, so sweet and considerate, yet at the same time manly, it was MONTHS before I could believe he was for real! We practically became one person during the time we were married, he was such a part of me. I couldn't make him mad if I tried. He forgave me everything and anything. He was always upbeat and smiling, never had a bad day.
Take care in your choices of men. I picked all the wrong men before my husband came along; that made it harder for me to trust him. A good man will not use you, but will be your rock and your companion. You deserve such a man, and they are out there!
2006-10-07 17:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does not heal all wounds. It only gives you time to think about the wound.
To forgive is to forgive. You let it go and move on.
When the memory rises again, and it will, you have to forgive and let go.
Forgiveness is healing in itself. It is powerful. But you have to let it work.
2006-10-07 17:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Cabana C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree - time does not heal. You heal yourself,and you do this by consciously making the choice to heal and allowing new experiences into your life.
Choice and experience heal - this is how we grow and mature.
2006-10-07 17:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, did you just describe my boyfriend? go on, honey. do what you need to do- & if it brings you any comfort, there are plenty of us out there going through it with you. (hug)
2006-10-07 17:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋