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2006-10-07 17:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0 0

No offense intended, but you are too young to face this by yourself. Buy an EPT test from the pharmacy, take it, and if you're pregnant, get some assistance right away. If you can tell your parents, do that. If for any reason telling your parents is unsafe, then you need the assistance of an adult who will help you. Go to your counselor at school and ask them if they are legally bound to maintain confidentiality. If they are, then they can help you. If the school counselor isn't an option, go to a free clinic.

Don't delay getting the pregnancy test. If termination of the pregnancy is something you want to do (depending on your beliefs) the sooner you know, the more safe options you have. If you want to carry the pregnancy to term, the sooner you know, the sooner you can take steps with your diet, etc, which will help insure your health and the baby's health. You are very young, and younger women often have more complications with pregnancy, so you should see a doctor right away.

If it turns out that you're not pregnant, take steps right away to get condoms and a reliable birth control method. (Condoms are useful to help prevent disease, but they're not the best method of birth control.) Strongly consider abstinence--13 is very young, and you will have a better chance for happiness in relationships if you delay being sexually active. Just because you've had sex already does not mean you have to remain active. But since you have had unprotected sex already, get the birth control and the condoms, so that if you do decide to have sex again, you will be less likely to get pregnant or ill.
I wish you the best.

2006-10-07 17:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Yogini108 5 · 0 0

I got pregnant at 15 and had a miscarriage.Now I am 23 with a planned baby. It is very hard but you need to tell your parents that you think you are pregnant. If you aren't than the next time you want to have sex think about this, if you are you have options and a very difficult choice to make. Good luck hope you aren't.Be safe a baby is not the only risk. You might want to get an AIDS test done also.

2006-10-07 17:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

It's time to realize that even though you thought you were grown up enough to make the decision to become intimate with a guy, you are scared out of your mind to confront what may be a life changing event. You need to talk to an adult (a parent or best friends mom or pastor) that you feel comfortable talking to that can be there if needed when you tell your parents, if you are afraid. You also need to go to a doctor to confirm if you are or are not pregnant. If you are, you need to make some decisions about what you are going to do about it. Your parents, may be very upset but they have your best interests at heart and will help you make the right decision.

2006-10-07 17:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0 0

The first think u ought 2 do is inform ur parents. No matter how mad they might be at u they still love. pls take a pregnancy test at the nearest hospital. im sure they see plenty of 13 yr old girls come in 2 take preganancy tests. By the way what were u thinking! u r only 13!

2006-10-07 17:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by erin 1 · 0 0

I know where you are coming from! I am a married person of eleven years. No matter what please believe that you can go to your parents. I know that it is scary and you feel that no one can help you. If you really think that you are pregnant go to your local health dept. I have a daughter of my own. I would hope that she would tell me anything. I might not know how to deal with it at first but in the end you are still your mother's daughter. She will understand and help you through this. I hope that this comforts you enough to know that no matter what you can still have a full filled life and be anything that you want to be. Just trust yourself and know that it could always be worse!!!! Please Believe in you!! A baby raising a baby is not the end of the world. There is adoption and other means, only if you and your parents decide what is best. Please think wisely and make the right choice for you and your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-07 17:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First off you should go and buy a pregnancy test. (Have you missed your period at all yet?)

Take the pregnancy test and if it is positive then your going to have to tell your mom (Parents) and if it is negative then you should tell your mom anyhow cause you need to be put on birth control if your going to be having sex again.

You are very young. You should really be thinking more about school books than boys.
If you are not pregnant then let this scare learn you and remind you the next time you decide to have sex without using no form of birth control.

You can go to the health department without your mom or dads permission and get put on birth control. (I did But i was 16 at the time)

First find out then seek your parents help. Good luck

2006-10-07 17:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Oh, wow, that's scary at your age. You should probably find out for sure first...go to some sort of planned parenthood organization (that's what it's called here) for free advice and a pregnancy test. If it is positive they will council you too. If necessary I bet they would be able to have someone accompany you when you talk to your parents. If you are absolutely against abortion and your parents don't want to raise the child as their own, then you should look into private adoption, where you get to pick the parents. Don't try to raise the child on your own...you are too young for that burden because you have so much living as a child yet to do. I wish you well and I hope for your sake that you aren't pregnant.....if you aren't please get on the pill asap.

2006-10-07 17:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 1 0

13 is young and you have every right to be scared. DONT listen to people who say your too young for sex, they dont know your story and details so dont let them get you down. You need to be tested so buy a pregnancy test. If you get the result as a positive you need to tell your mom or a trusted adult. You need to be taking prenatal pills so you baby can develop healthier. Dont hide it, go to your parents and tell them, I am in a real bad situation right now because I am almost positive I am pregnant and my rents dont know. I'm like 4 months along and you can totally tell.....SO I am hiding it and its not good. Just stay calm its not the end of the world you have plenty of options. IF you would ever think of abortion just remember once you do it you cant undo it. BEST OF GOOD LUCK TO YOU! if you need anything send me a message.

2006-10-07 17:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all.. stop having sex.. your 13... and now look.. if you are a prego you have a huge responsibility ahead of you when your suppose to be enjoying middle school.. and JV football games, and soccer practice.. not raising a baby.. you have to take a test.. some other signs of pregnancy are sore boobies, and feeling sick to your stomach.. if you are having those symptoms then you need to take a Home prego test ASAP... then if it comes back positive you HAVE to tell your parents... your parents are the ones that will be there for you the most regardless of how mad you think they will get!

2006-10-08 13:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Fashion Diva 3 · 0 0

Punta, jump in your time machine...go back to that moment when you were about to unzip your jeans....and say.."No. I shouldn't have sex. I'm only 13. I'm just a kid. I cannot raise another kid. What am I doing? I'm not a grown-up. Why am I trying to do grown-up things?"

Raising a child is not an easy thing to do. I just had a baby, and I just turned 22. It's one of the hardest things I've ever done. You NEVER get a break. However, it is very rewarding. I love my daughter.

Go tell your mom, and get help. Whatever you do, DON'T ABORT!

2006-10-07 17:22:57 · answer #11 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 0 0

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