am i wrong for taking my best friends gf?

Question

i know its wrong for me to be more attractive to my best friends gf and then we try to not tell anyone that we're going out behind his back? the next day somehow he found out at school and then he hated me and made threats about how he was gonna beat my *** afterschool and in the end he didn't he didn't do s!@# and we even ride the same bus. and live very close to eachother and have almost the same classes together. and then he comes to my house asking if i could play basketball today. now i just look at him funny. i said hold on and then we played basketball and then i explained o him why i did what i did. and in the end i helped him out cuz she really didn't like him from the start and i saved him from embarassment and we're still friends and me and her are stll going out and he really doesn't care anymore. but the real question is was i wrong for what i did?

Answer 1

NO, You did the right thing, You saved your best friend for falling deeper with a girl that's apparently a lil tramp that moves to guy to guy with no respect to anyone. Get what ya can and dump the whore. Show her how it feels.

Answer 2

yeah you were wrong...BIG TIME
i mean seriously, the least you could do is tell your front straight up .n. not go behind his back...especially if he's your BEST FRIEND...c'mon, you have to be real with him...that was kinda shady how he found out from someone else, YOU shoulda been the one to tell him upfront...
if your friend was a true friend (in which we already know he is now), then he would've understood after you explained everything to him...
make sure you really tell your friend that you are sorry for what happened, and you should reassure him that you will tell him things directly from now on...your friend might have some trust issues with you, but you have to make sure that he can still trust you as a best friend...good luck... and next time, find your own girlfriend...lol

Answer 3

Your friend is hurting inside, even though he doesn't show it. There's an old saying between guys that goes, "Friends before women."
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The bad thing is this girl may end up doing the same thing to you!
Women are human just like guys and if she did it once, she'll do it again! Believe me.....What comes around goes around. It may not happen to you with this girl, but it will happen somewhere down the road.
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Friends are hard to come by and there's plenty of girls out there.
This is part of the learning process about life. In about ten years you'll learn about girls and dating.

Answer 4

First of all, do you want to be with a cheater? if she is doing to your Best Friend, she could do it with you! Your only enabling the behavior. She should have ended her relationship before she even started dating you. Its called closure. So are you willing to loose your best friend over her? Is she worth it?
Yes you were wrong. Even if they were dating for the wrong reasons. Think about it? She was dating him ? Because she was what?? bored or lonely??

Answer 5

All that I can say is that anyone that would take a girlfriend, boyfriend, or spouse away from a friend could never be called a friend in the first place. It would not matter if she was unhappy with him in the first place, he was your friend and that should have meant more to you then anything, and she could have dumped him, and found someone else..

Answer 6

yes, c'mon now, are there no other girls out there than your own friend's girl friend, how would you feel if he would have done that to you!!!

Obviously he is a much better friend to you than you are to him because he forgave you for such an act...pure betrayel. You really should feel very bad. And think about this mister, if that girl didnt like him why did she stay with him and go out with you behind his back...can you really trust someone like that?? what am i saying, you cant be trusted either...actually, you guys might be perfect for each other!! good luck with THAT relationship!!

Answer 7

Yes

Answer 8

that's in elementary words incorrect because that's thoughtless of your acquaintances, and doubtlessly your lady friend, who might want to probable be made uncomfortable through it. the excuses for this are complicated. To a reluctant participant, public reflects of love (PDA) that bypass overboard can sense like you're doing it as a teach for others. No female needs to sense like you're using her to earn kudos out of your acquaintances. besides, seeing human beings messing round might want to be sexually arousing, and your GF probable would not favor to sense like a smooth-middle porn performer. She needs your making out to be about you and her; no longer about you, her and an target market which will properly be getting off on observing. To the friends in the room who're uncomfortable, it may look like you're doing a teach as a fashion of bragging. Like "seem what I were given and also you dont!" which may make human beings envious and jealous. human beings will extra resent your lack of class and tact as evidenced through your indifference to their sensibilities. some individuals are viscerally disgusted through PDA, an irrational reaction pondering that's expression of love, which shouldn't regularly be faulted on its advantages. My genuine answer is that no, at its middle there is not any longer some thing incorrect with PDA, yet understanding that fairly some individuals are uncomtortable with it, you should maintain in mind that and take care no longer to offend. i imagine if human beings were extra take care of in themselves they would not be uncomfortable with it, yet that's human nature and isn't any longer likely to modify.

Answer 9

Shame on you! I believe in karma...what goes around=comes around. Some day you will be in love with a girl and she will cheat on you.

Answer 10

That was kindda jacked but thats koo if he aint trippin then its koo.I guess.Thats crazy he did a lot of talkin at the mouth peice.The only thing that mattters is who she wants to be with and i guess its you so there you go.She probly used him to get to you. Naw...maby ....idk