2006-10-07 17:08:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My goodness, I've lived in small towns most of my life, and trust me, they're anything but lonely. You just have to figure out what the local people do. You might join a church or a club, or see if there's a community group you can join through work.
Small towns don't have the bars and raves and crazy shiit that big cities have, but small towns have lots of activity and fun. You just have to know where to look for it.
I went on vacation a few months ago to Indianapolis for a convention. I don't see how you big-city people handle it. The place was loud, dangerous, and dirty. I much prefer my safe little town.
2006-10-07 17:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I'm suffering from the same thing I'm use to a town were the pharmacy's were open till well all night and the grocery stores were open till midnight and now I live in a town were everything closes around 7 the dollar store is the biggest thing here and stays open till 9 on sat.
And have no friends in this town and a stay at home mom so I get very lonely with no Friends to go out with.
but if you find out how to cope let me know.
What if your town is so small it don't have clubs? the only thing in it is some bars a school were they have grades 6-12 and a local grocery store and a small dollar store?
and the only diner in town is closing down
2006-10-07 17:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dakotah D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made that move once. After a year or so, when I had all my stuff in the town- school, work, hangouts- I found that, far from being lonely, I seemed to see people I knew everywhere. Since there were relatively few people around, I was just that much more likely to run into people I knew. Now, boredom, that was another story. Thank goodness I wasn't too far away from a huge city.
2006-10-07 17:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time! enable a while bypass... have self belief it or no longer your gonna discover somebody and be greater desirable than chuffed. have you ever seen all of us breaking apart in 22 and be depressing for the remainder of their lives? Your youthful (Im approximately your age) and all you could desire to do is watching life as certainly as you could. Your a waiter, you meet 1000's of human beings each and every week, quickly adequate your life's gonna replace and you will sense sorry approximately having felt lonely for a on an identical time as... be effective!!!! :D
2016-12-13 04:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by kull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i moved from pheonix arizona to dexter minnestoa the town i live in has 250 people in it so it pretty small all you can do is talk to people and be nice but il warn you its hard like im real open minded and people around here are not and its kinda like the good old boys club but just be nice and talk to them and thats all you can do
2006-10-07 17:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by andy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Join a club or something (doesn't have to be sport) and talk with everyone you see. Being friendly will leave everyone with a good first impression of you. Work colleages....flirt with the waitress/waiter, etc.
2006-10-07 17:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at the better side of living in a smaller community, safer, know more people, etc.
2006-10-07 17:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to MY world.... it's tough as hell to do.... I know.. I'm doin it...
What was YOUR reason for making the move? Did you have a sister that talked you into moving closer to family, then moved away, leaving you there by YOURSELF too?? (lol)
Ah... the choices that we make in life... and the roads that we choose to travel..........
2006-10-07 17:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋