2006-10-07 16:43:54 · 9 answers · asked by nessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stay out of it. A marriage is between 2 people for better or worse.
You can be a good friend and be there for him/her as a shoulder to cry on or to help pack and move. Other than that it is completely inappropriate for you to involve yourself. If your friend has been doing this for a long time then it is no wonder the marriage is disintegrating.
2006-10-07 16:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them to ask the spouse if they feel the marriage is failing also. Ask if things are as good as they used to be. If there's anything they can do to make it better or if they should just call it quits.
2006-10-07 23:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do if the friendship is important to you is to not offer any advice. be there to listen to her and let her cry on your shoulder. let her know that a good divorce is better than a bad marriage. divorce is not fatal she will survive and live to love again. tell her your there for her no matter what she decides to do. you could even let her practice what she is going to say to her husband on you. making life changing decisions are so hard for us personally yet we give advice in these situations freely. just don't do it.
2006-10-07 23:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The marriage is failing WHY? Your best bet is to stay out of it. You dont want to become apart of the fight. They have issues they need to work through and you did not create the drama that is about to unfold.
2006-10-07 23:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by GRISSIOM PURE GENIUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to tell them. It's their marriage and they need to deal with it. If the situation is on the rocks they should go to marriage counseling or something. But I would keep my nose out of it and let them handle their business.. it's their marriage and if they want to save it they will do what they gotta do.
2006-10-07 23:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell that person to sit down and talk to the spouse there is no other way
2006-10-07 23:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Dis Chick Iz Delicious~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it that she still has feelings for him like she dont want to hurt him?....she still cares and that might be y she cant...she might not want it to be over so she just complains but deals hopin hell grow up...if she really wants to leave and not just bc shes fed up and hurt, but bc she truly feels thats what she has to do then shell leave in time on time....tell her to try as much as she can b4 she calls it quits bc a lot of pep dont make it work bc they give up and walk away when things are gettin hard and difficult.....i guess its easier to do....
2006-10-07 23:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually a 3rd party can't be any help in this situation unless you are a trained counsellor you need to back away from this one..she has to grow some balls and handle it herself...........
2006-10-07 23:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it...Its not your problem
2006-10-07 23:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋