I been married for 14 years we never have a lot of sex because I had a child right after getting married but now he always wants to be with me and I don't want to do it..I work a lot of hours and I am always tired but he does not understand that I don't know what to do to make him happy without having sex.
2006-10-07 16:24:26 · 16 answers · asked by Help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you want to keep your hunny remember you have 3 holes lol
2006-10-07 16:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by megs 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I had this problem at first after my son... Just to tired to be turned on. They told me to do it anyways... The kind of motto like "do it and hopefully your heart will follow" and it worked a couple of weeks later i was into it again... but I had to do a lot and then I wanted it. If you get in the habit of not doing it then it just gets to easy to say "no". Try lots of foreplay even though it seems pointless now the more you keep trying the more of the hormone that makes you want sex gets released (it stops when you stop doing it as much) and then you will want it and enjoy it. Stay honest with your husband. You two might even try a sex thearpist... good luck
2006-10-07 16:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is apart of a marriage.. But being a women with experience.. Sometime the most simple things can cause a big change in our body and that could be age--medication--stress. Go see a doc and make sure that everything is OK.. then if it is take the next step flirt with each other do the things you did to get his attention that made you want him and let him know that you are having a low sex drive and for him to bare with you.. take him to the doc with you. but make sure you assure him that there is not cheating going on and that you love him very deeply
2006-10-07 16:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm on the flip side... Married for 11 years, four kids under 10 years old, and we haven't "done it" since her last pregnancy. We're both just too wiped out, and I'm just tired of trying... Personal experience here, but both of you have to take the initiative. Be thankful he wants you, and that he is still around. Like the others said, there's not only three holes, but hands work wonders too. ;-)
2006-10-07 16:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question. Men tend to have a higher sex drive than women... make a day that belongs to you and your husband, re-establish a romance with him... once a week, be romantic, go on a date with him, buy yourself some sexy clothes and pamper yourself a bit. Remind YOURSELF that you are sexy and vibrant and go out and enjoy being a WOMAN... perhaps you will feel a little more like making love to your husband if you rekindle your relationship with yourself as a woman.
2006-10-07 16:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by moejaymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always felt that sex is very important in a relationship, not saying its everything but to me its part of what keeps you close. Maybe you just need to rediscover each other.
2006-10-07 16:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by lvwire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U r thinking about been stress out and not having time to make love to your husband and pleasing your self once in a while, u should do something to loosen up your self.
2006-10-07 16:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem lately , and I don't know what to do either , I also feel like we had so much sex in the deginning that it's like haveigng steak every night it's like damn steak again ?
2006-10-07 16:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. This is one of the biggest factors of marriage, being intimate. If you don't do it he will look for it somewhere else. Are you not attracted to him anymore? Try new stuff to turn on the passion again.
2006-10-07 16:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by CR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just sex and if that's all it takes to make him happy, consider yourself lucky!
2006-10-07 16:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What about taking a vacation so you can both be relaxed and you can enjoy each other.
2006-10-07 16:29:35 · answer #11 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋