I'm only in high school, and i think i have very few friends. I don't go out a lot, and i don't talk on the phone much. It's not that i don't necesserally want to, but, its so difficult to find people I like. I have friends, not many, but i cant go out with them because of prbles with their family. Someties im happy not going out and having problems with people, but sometimes i feel im missing out in life.Is it that im being choosy and arrogant, is it just difficult because of the people, and its just high school, or do i need a psychologist?
2006-10-07 16:21:59 · 4 answers · asked by K_Gab 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
nooo, it's not your fault.... it's really hard to find truely good friends. maybe if you joined clubs or something like choir. i met almost every single friend i have now from joining choir and special choir groups. if i wouldn't have joined, i wouldn't have found my best friend of 4 years so far. sooo, try to join groups of people that have the same intrests as you... i probably sound like your mom or something, but im in my first year of college and i truely wish i would've listened to my mom in 9th grade when she told me to join stuff at school. i would've met my friends sooo much earlier. good luck! just remember, good friends are hard to find, and you don't have to go out all the time to have fun. : )
2006-10-07 16:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by mayso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not quantity – but quality.
Most friends in high school are just for the few years you attend there. Don’t get caught up in the BS – focus on where you want to go.
2006-10-07 23:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to have someone to talk to It's necessary. If ya got no close friends to unload on get a shrink.
2006-10-07 23:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Re Fined 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
improve communication skills and read self development books.
2006-10-07 23:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋