my best friend(play cousin) went with my boyfriend while i was going with him and she already had somebody and she cheated on him twice and he still took her back and i am still sourt of cool with her but not really i think of how wrong she did me everyday and i keep it inside of me what do you think?
2006-10-07 16:10:28 · 20 answers · asked by Ke-Ke H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the boy i was going with wants to do some cruel things to her for what she did to him
2006-10-07 16:16:02 · update #1
You should never keep your feelings bottled up.. You should tell her how you feel and what you think of what she did to you..
If you don't say anything she will continue to walk all over you.
Time to stand up and say you are pissed!!
2006-10-07 16:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by fishin_girl72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's easy to say you forgive, to forget is altogether another matter.
I bet you think that no-one has really made her feel bad.
She's been let off by her partner and you by the sound of it and you know she's thinking that it's so easy to get away with it!
Find yourself a new best friend because the likelihood is... it could really happen again.
2006-10-07 23:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lorraine R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so sad to have someone you consider your friend and trust to do something like that to you. She must not care for you the same way you care for her because a true friend would never do that to you. That was so wrong and of coarse you can never have the same friendship as you once had that is normal after the betrayal.
2006-10-07 23:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by LoKa Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup it's wrong.
When you are dating someone, make sure you and your mate, make a commitment for a right relationship. Don't hurt each other by cheating with someone else.
If you caught your mate cheating on you, don't make revenge by cheating too, it will hurt both of you sooner or later, it is better to re-evaluate your relationship. If it not possible to move-on then go break-up and continue your life.
2006-10-07 23:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by Pastoer_return 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is only 1 thing u shud do! Take her by the sholders,and yell at her about how u feel,express urself! Then when u r finished,try 2 work it out,.U both might end up in tears,but it is okay,it will work out someway,I know it! Good luck!
2006-10-07 23:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong,but its your choice as to stay friends or not, freinds family it doesnt matter , cheating on her own boy friend not once but twice and if he knows,,he has no self respect,,as for her messing with you bf,,that is plain out betrayal of trust between freinds or family,,,but you didnt say if you kept your bf or dumped,, the latter i would hope,, as for being cool with her,, go for it,, but remember revenge is a dish best served cold,,, and since your being COOL with her..............
2006-10-07 23:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her, and keep her at a distance. She's a bad friend and not a cool person.
2006-10-07 23:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by a b 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be straight up with her and tell her how you feel. If she really is your friend, then ask her if she felt wrong doing what she did. Then ask yourself, how long did it last, and why didn't she stop?
2006-10-07 23:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get it out of your system. Tell her how you feel and talk about it. It sounds like she isn't your BEST friend......just a cousin.
Boys come and boys go, so don't be to terrible angry about it all.
Pops
2006-10-07 23:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all relationships are based on trust n obviously u cant trust her so dump her and himn move on only spend your time on people who u can trust they are ur true friends
2006-10-08 06:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jennyxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋