Why Does my Mom.............?????? Help would be much appreciated?

Question

K I'm so goth and a cult member and my Mom is Jewish and she always call goths evil devil worshipping freaks. But she knows I am (not just cuz I wear all black and "weird" makeup) but I'm a cult inaway but she never tries to change me she only insults me and says I need to change but never asks me where I go, why I'm late for curfew (12 mid night is my curfew), she always cover up for me at school, let's my bf stay the night I'm not complaining but I don't get it. What should I do except for change cuz that's not a option. It's like she wants me to be someone else then who I really am.

umm dude I am a teen I'm 13 and no I don't do anything to piss her off . And no I want the rules to stay the same, like next week I'm moving in with my bf Gerald ya for me, but inaway I don't want structure and I don't want to change I just wanna know what you think she wants is all.

Answer 1

Sorry , I can hardly understand your "Q" .
If you were my child there would have to be more communication
between the two of us , so I could understand you .
I may not have liked everything my kids did but we could always talk and we are still close !

Answer 2

First thing is to ask her yourself.... Upfront and straight forward. There was a time when judaism was condemned, and the sensitivities run deep in the faith. Try to lay it all out and confront the base problem. It sounds like you crave more structure, more discipline, and are going outside of the home to get it. Look inside and find your own solution, as you are part of the solution,. or part of the problem. Don't be afraid to ask the really hard questions of yourself.

Answer 3

Aren't you over the teenager rebellion phase yet? Maybe if you got over it your mom would respect and appreciate you. But for now, it seems that everything you're doing you're doing just to piss off your mom. Its probably subconscious, but you should really think about why you do the things you do.