2006-10-07 15:45:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Don't do anything. Sex is for two mature people who are married. Wait until you find that special girl and have your first time with someone you truely love. Truely hope you take my advice...
-Gaby
2006-10-07 15:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by dotbrie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold off sweetie. Your hormones are raging and you feel like you want to do something. Talk to someone about it. Talk to your Mom. I know it is hard sometimes. She can advise you. Do you have a steady boy friend? Is he pressuring you? Don't do something you will regret later. A pregnant girl can finish High School and go to college but it is awfully hard. Shop around for the one you will love and eventually marry. I know, I sound like I am preaching but really think about not doing it.
When i was in High school, a lot of girls were sleeping around. their reasoning was,"If I get pregnant, I can always get an abortion.." Abortion should never be a means of birth control.Don't have sex before marriage and you won't have to worry.
When a teenager gets pregnant there are so many people that suffer. The boy and girl, the child, Their parents, their bothers and sisters.
If you are a boy, the same thing goes for you. Now is the time to date and find out who you want to spend your life with. If you have sex with the wrong person and they become pregnant you can marry the wrong person or have to pay child support and also not be able to finish school.
If you do decide to have sex. Use birth control. But remember birth control is not always a guarantee against pregnancy. The pill isn't 100% effective and condoms break. The best birth control is abstinence.
2006-10-07 23:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Marcia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude,
im gonna give u some advice and u will thank me for it.
if u take my advice.
u see, im a 27 year old guy. and gues what ?
im a virgin. thats right. im 27 and a virgin. so it makes me a loser. with a capital L.
do u want to be a loser?
u are stil so young, and only 16. which means that u are surrounded by girls your age, 15, 16 year old girls.
if u can have sex with them. DO IT!
for the love of gawd, do it!
do it! because if u dont, then when u reach my age, u will hate yourself, u will regret it, u will ask yourself every day why u didn't do it when u had the chance! so, do it now, get the whole stupid virginity thing out of the way, because i hate to say this, high school is the best chance for a guy to get laid. college is iffy at best, and when a guy starts working, his chances get lower and lower as he gets older. for me, at 27, my chances are practically zero. so soon i'll need to go find a prostitute. so you're 16 now. go and have sex with a girl your age. have fun and good luck dude.
gimme 10 points please please?
2006-10-07 22:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally I think that you should wait until you are older and know more about this life that you live however if you are going to have sex anyway you must educate your self about sex and ST D's and learn how to be safe. You should talk to your mother and I know that is easier said than done but if you cannot try to talk to someone else that you may be close to sea ch the web whatever it takes just be very safe and protect yourself.....
2006-10-07 22:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by SEAN M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is called hormones. it is completely normal to feel the desire to have sex at that age. the thing is, you're probably not ready to actually have sex. believe it or not, it really is an emotional act-- even though it may not seem that way at the time. i advise you to abstain from sex until you are older. until then, masturbation is probably the best alternative.
2006-10-07 22:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself, if you know what I mean (nudge nudge wink wink say no more!) Fantasy goes a long way & is safer than reality! Give yourself a hand! :) Leave the real thing for later.
2006-10-07 22:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why u need sex?. I think you need education. Sex is important when you get married with s/body.
2006-10-11 00:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Shafique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbate. It's safe and harmless. No one gets pregnant or contracts STDs. When you're ready for an adult relationship you'll know it and you'll be glad you didn't do anything stupid.
2006-10-07 22:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Lleh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just hormones, you'll get over it. Trust me.
2006-10-07 22:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by princton_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋