my bestfriend and i used to be really close and we faced some drama over the year bc some whore tried to split us up....we finally cooled off of the drama and every time i talk to him its awkward....we used to talk for hours but now i cant even keep a 5 min coversation going....when theres an awkward silence i end up talking about myself which i hate because no one wants to listen to someone talk about themselves, thats not attractive, and i really want him back.....what should i do to keep him interested? how do i get the bond i had with him back? i dont want to grow apart from him again we've tried that and we both cant not have each other so i want to patch the missing hole once and for all
2006-10-07 15:41:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try to remember some of the things that you guys thought were hysterical back when you were really close, then bring up those things in your next conversation. Start off slow....don't try too hard!! Then the next time you talk do the same thing and slowly add more conversation to it. You'll be "BFF" in no time.....
Good luck to you!!!
2006-10-07 15:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by 2Good4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a connection if the person you want to be connected to isn't responding.
I would tell him up front how I feel....let him know you're open to starting over.....but then that's all you can do.
You may have to move him from the "close friend" box into the "acquaintance" box.
2006-10-07 22:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you miss him as a friend, and if he still distances himself from you..... just see him whenever you see him, don't fret over why he won't do this or that, don't call him all the time or try to go see him, let it finish cooling off and if you guys were meant to still be friends... it'll be!
2006-10-07 22:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rediscover his interests by sifting through his trash and keeping track of his every move from the safety of the neighbor's bushes. Good luck!
2006-10-07 22:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by MIPDogg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just need to quit worryin about it and let urself relax around him....if u've known him for a long time then u should KNOW him enuff to know how to act around him...just chill like u se to...if u;ll really let the drama go then there shouldnt be any negitive vibe there and ull should be able to move on fr here as if nothin was ever ther.....dont look for any thing to talk about just talk about nething....good luck girl and i know how it feels but believe me...u just gotta let go....
2006-10-07 23:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to patch the 'missing hole'? That sounds what he prolly wants to do.
Girls cant 'be friends' with guys. Guys always want to have sex with girls and girls are always wanting to be friends, but you cant be friends, espically if you two had 'drama'.
Get a new friend, one without balls.
2006-10-07 22:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by ShaMayMay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋