During holiday, my girlfriend keeps asking me to make love, but for me, it is really tired if I do it three times a day. Sometimes, I cannot do it anymore for my dick gets impotence. So, my girl is very upset. Now, what should I do? Maybe, I think, I should:
1) eat something nutritive foods, but like what?
2) do more exicise and sports
3) learn more tricks on making love, but what are they?
Is it necessary to see doctor? I can do twice one day and each lasts 4 minutes. I am in twenties only.
2006-10-07 15:01:55 · 10 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Brother.
First of all relax. It's not the end of the world. I have had the same problem with a few women also. With some of them I can't keep it up and most of them It won't go away.
Second, you are not a Black-n-Decker power tool. She can help by maybe wearing some stockings and high heels to bed. Maybe covering up her stomach with a corset. How about giving her some perfume that you like that just brings out the animal in you.
Find out what turns you on and incorporate that into your love making. Figure out what is turning you off and talk with her about it.
You need to get your confidence up buddy. Your both young and need to experience life and other people before you settle down with all that Oprah lovey dovey ****.
I would try some of these things and maybe see your doctor before taking any OTC supplements.
2006-10-07 16:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, quanity is not quality. You two need to get together on the QUALITY of your love making. You need to do some things which are relaxing and sensual, and add more time to your love making sessions, and not necessarily intercourse each time. There is so much more you can do besides just a 4 minute romp in the hay! It is about taking your time and getting each other into the sensual touching, massage, kissing all the "zones" which make you both very very hot.
Also, if she is a lot more horny than you, try to take some quickies to just get her off, inbetween the times you are making love. She just needs more orgasms right now. Help her to become multi-orgasmic by insisting she keeps coming over and over until she is totally exhausted.
It will all be fine when you both take your time.
2006-10-07 22:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Seraphim B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife would love you. I take around 20 minutes or so. You should see a doctor. Your in your twenties you should be able to go around 5 to 7 times a day. Lasting longer each time. If you cant learn to eat her well. Spend time learning to locate and rub her g spot while eating her. Its always a pleaser with women. Your lucky a woman asking to make love. That's a novelty
2006-10-07 22:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by us citizen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat foods that are rich in B vitamins for more energy. Oranges give me a boost in the middle of the day. Take some Ginkgo. Definitely exercise to build up stamina.(believe it or not Yoga is awesome for that) Get creative in/out of bed. Get a copy of Kamasutra and books of the female anatomy and get some knowledge. There's more to making love than the physical act itself. Get into her head and let her know how you feel about her. Foreplay is essential.(oral and manual stimulation) Take a shower or bath together to get things started. Light some candles and get romantic. Make out like teenagers and get hot and heavy. Feel each other up. Massage.
2006-10-08 02:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try oral sex to give your little man a break, plus she will be able to enjoy that just as much, maybe do some role playing as well so it's not only about your lil man doing all the work it's fun and entertaining as well!!!
Oh and exercise does boost your libido so do that as well.
2006-10-07 22:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about making her be more active herself.Make her be part of the fore play and have her do some work herself. That is really greedy of her to just want you to do all the work!
2006-10-07 22:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in 4 minutes you probably arent pleasing her so try getting her off first before you have sex, like with foreplay ,your mouth or maybe some toys
2006-10-07 22:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you're not a monkey, and you can only get your shyt up so many times. Try different positions or do like I do.... Imagine he's (or in your case..she's) someone else....Lord knows me and Denzel have had sex numerous of times!!!!!
2006-10-07 22:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh shes expecting way to much tell her to give it a rest
2006-10-07 22:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by weirded out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use your mouth to please her, girls love that as much as guys do....
2006-10-07 22:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by Aime E 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋