Two weeks ago i was shoping and a poor man came to me asking for money for his sick daughter , so i was giving the money to him , but the money accidentally felled down on the floor and he took the money from the floor ....
i didn't mean to do this it was an accident , but i feel bad every time i remeber it , coz its kinda insulting for him to take the money from the floor
i know its silly , but would you feel bad for him if you were in my place?
2006-10-07 15:00:35 · 10 answers · asked by KSAGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You know this is so nice to hear. You are a great person ,and i would feel the same way you do right now about the whole thing.It's hard to see people like that. I once was driving and there was a guy standing by the highway entrance with a sign that said will work for food, i went and got him something to eat , after i gave it to him and went home i felt like i should've done more for this person.It still makes me feel awful when i wonder what happened with this man. You really shouldnt feel bad,you helped him out,i do understand you think he is offended by the fact he was asking for money and you dropped it,but he is so thankful for you helping him that i'm sure he never thought anything but appreciation for your your concern.
2006-10-07 15:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by mommyofsix 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't have enough dignity to be insulted by such a thing. Seriously, when you've had enough sh-t happen to you in life, the motives behind people's actions stop having meaning and the only thing that matters is the action itself. If I were the guy, I would have wanted your money and wouldn't have cared one way or another about how I got it. To me, you would just be a money machine. If you droped it on the floor, you're a broken money machine, but it doesn't affect my dignity at all.
2006-10-07 15:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by jack b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey what you did was a very honorable thing. I wish there were more people out there like you. That was very kind, and I'm sure he was just glad to get it. He probably didn't even consider it insulting at all. He was so grateful that you were kind enough to give it to him. God will reward you for your good deed. To day My husband and I went shopping and some kids were putting up a sign that said adopt a soldier and we gave to it. It makes you feel so good to help someone. We told them that we thought it was a wonderful thing to do. There are a lot of good people in this world, but not enough. God Bless.
2006-10-07 16:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are being too hard on yourself. At least you were kind enough to want to help him. I guess if you wouldn't have reached for the money, it wouldn't have fallen and there wouldn't be a question. But then again, you might be feeling worse for not helping him. Let yourself off the hook.
2006-10-07 15:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what if he picked it up from the floor, at least he got the money right!
2006-10-07 15:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did nothing wrong, so you don`t need to feel quilty if thats what you mean, but its natural to feel sympathy for another person if you mean that you pity him. It just means that you`re a good person and don`t want to see another human being suffer.
2006-10-07 15:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel bad at all. I hate to tell you though, but you prolly got scammed and he went and got high with your money.
2006-10-07 15:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm....no, if it were an accident, why would you feel bad about it?
2006-10-07 15:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was a accident, then no.
2006-10-07 15:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by smalzimbarry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope.
2006-10-07 15:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by graceannahycintha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋