my daughter is 12 and is hangin out with older guys and i do not know what to do wt her she si becomeing a little whore whast do i do
2006-10-07 14:52:33 · 11 answers · asked by Bobbie W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get her away from that. The guys are probaly telling her stuff that she shouldnt be hearing. Get her into after school programs to take up more of her time. And get her clothes that are cute and girly that arnt whoreish. Get her out of there QUICK!!! Good Luck though!
2006-10-07 14:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would first figure out how this happened. What a nightmare!
Then ask yourself how much effort you're willing to put into turning this situation around. Do you have a lot of extra time to spend with her? To supervise? To put up with the abuse she's going to give you when you set and enforce reasonable limits? Do you need to consider moving to a new neighborhood and/or changing schools? Does she have a father? A strong male role model relative? Can he take on some of this?
If it doesn't bother you enough to do some things like this, then chances are not much is going to change.
2006-10-07 14:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her she can't hang out with them, then you explain why (because she's probably either naive, or loving the attention from the older guys). One thing is certain; you need to put a stop to it. Guys that age are only after one thing, and it's not good to have your 12 year old right there with them.
2006-10-07 16:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a heart to heart conversation with your daughter. .Have listening ears to all what she's gonna say. Make a self-examination and ask yourself why would your daughter spend so much time hanging out with those guys. Could it be she is looking for attention.which she can not find at your own home? lol
2006-10-07 15:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her no. Don't let her out. She is 12! Where is she going that she is hanging out with these boys? Don't lether go there. She will get mad, but tough. Your job is to protect her and to raise her. If you don't keep her home, you will be raising her babies soon.
Start taking her to church. To a counselor. Help her to reclaim her preteenhood by involving her in appropriate activities for her age. Chaperoned activities. Be there for her and with her.
2006-10-07 14:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Beth M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you'll keep her posted on what the light of day looks like until she's 30 and can leave the house again.
2006-10-07 14:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing DONT ever tell her she's a whore!That will make her dispise you.Just spend more time with her go out,eat or maybe just a picnic or to shop...do things that will get her away from these useless as dudes.Goodluck!
2006-10-07 15:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by None 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first YOU ARE GROUNDED then you stop seeing these guys one of these guys might have already take advantage of her.........if they are 18 or 19 they can be arrested.you must be firm and not back down, even if it is that you have to excort her to school and back to home....and do not let her out, stay grounded until she starts acting right
2006-10-07 14:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don''t tell her nothing..whip her butt, take away her priviledges, dress her in age appropriate clothes....DO YOUR PART AS HER PARENT...KEEP HER AWAY FROM 16 19 YEAR OLD..
remember the apple don't fall far from the tree either....make sure you are upholding the image that you want your daughter to have...they don't always do as they are told..... they do as they see
2006-10-07 15:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by sisrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her out of the house except to go to school.
2006-10-07 14:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋