My boyfriend is very controlling I just don't know what to do about it cuz I love him but he scares me like last night I was chill' n with some friends and his friend smacked me just play'n with me so we started slap boxing. And everyone knows I love to slap box and my boyfriend walks back in the house and he starts yelling at me and his friend telling his friend if he ever touched what was his he would shot him in the face and that went for all the rest of the guys in the house. It got dead quite then he tolled me andyou , you let him touch you like that I will through you out on your *** to if you don't start respecting that you are mine and will touch no man except me. Then I got tolled all night how I was in the wrong I need to know am I in the wrong?
2006-10-07 14:51:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He threatened me if I left him. He is 24 I am only 18 I mean I just turned 18, 7days ago..And he said if I left he would beat up every man I ever try to get with. I know it is stupid to stay but I am scarded of what will happen if I leave.
2006-10-07 15:08:53 · update #1
When a man thinks that you are his property then enough is enough. You're not a prized possession and you can do whatever the hell you like - get out and away while you still can.
2006-10-07 14:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by jbabee22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Would think that when he threatens to shoot some-one, that should be the clue, to get out while the getting is good. You could be next, in his controling mind. God be with you. I hope you will take this very serious. That was just a warning. The next time might be the real thing, and it won't get better. God Bless.
2006-10-07 22:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get away from this abuser. Love is NOT supposed ti hurt. Slap boxing? are you crazy, it's an excuse to hit each other. You need to find a new set of friends.
2006-10-07 21:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong for staying with this guy. He views you as his property, not his equal. Most times when a man acts like this, he has abusive tendencies. Get out now!
2006-10-07 21:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to leave the psycho alone.. 1st of all ur noones property, 2nd if u wanna slap box w/the president u can if u want to.. 3rd if u fear him then u won't be able to stand up for urself..
u need to leave him then file a restraining order on that asssss for ur safety..
2006-10-07 21:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is selfless.. He is getting way too processive you need to get away from this relationship before it gets too violent... In a relationship we can't control a person or yet make them be a certain way... Your bf is getting way too controlling and dominant which will be very bad bad news......
2006-10-07 22:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents about this. Stop seeing him and stop talking to him. Get a restraining order if possible. He sounds mental and dangerous. This isn't love, it's sickness.
Go to http://www.safeyouth.org/ and chat with a person there.
2006-10-07 21:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad news .. this guy thinks he OWNS you .. and it will only get WORSE .. get out while you still can. This guy doesn't love you .. he just uses you for his pleasure and his sickness. I'm sorry. Good Luck to you! :)
2006-10-07 21:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your bag and get out while you are still alive this guy is
B I G trouble, do it now
2006-10-07 21:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was jus over-reacting.....
This could be a signs of more problem later on if any guys come and talk to you
2006-10-07 21:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋