During holiday, my girlfriend keeps asking me to make love, but for me, it is really tired if I do it three times a day. Sometimes, I cannot do it anymore for my dick gets impotence. So, my girl is very upset. Now, what should I do? Maybe, I think, I should:
1) eat something nutritive foods, but like what?
2) do more exicise and sports
3) learn more tricks on making love, but what are they?
Is it necessary to see doctor? I can do twice one day and each lasts 4 minutes. I am in twenties only.
2006-10-07 14:42:09 · 11 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Mike-You deserve really good professional advice.Your family doctor can provide you with a number of options.It's not that uncommon nowadays for men,even as young as you to have this problem.Sometimes it's not good for you to ask people on here for advice.Speak to a professional.Good Luck.
2006-10-07 14:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm...poor girl! N wonder she keeps asking for more...4 minutes each time? Are you serious? Sounds like she needs a LOT of cheering up! I know I would, if you were my guy. Well, at least you're asking for help. WELL, hmm, um, let's see...
Yes, definitely more foreplay...do you do that at all? Or does that come within the 4 minute time allotment? Most women have barely gotten started in 4 minutes...you need to give her a chance to catch up a bit. Seeing as how she is cornered into a 4 minute time frame.
You need to do a little pre-foreplay as well...like, do something nice for her, maybe...do the dishes or give her some flowers...buy her a sexy lil pair of crotchless panties...maybe that would help you with your problem as well?
There are vitamins that are supposed to help in that area, but I don't know what they are.
Get yourself a book on love-making...you don't even have to buy one if you're strapped for money. Go to the library.
If you can't increase that time frame some, I would say yes, definitely ask a doctor. Four minutes? Sorry, I don't think so!
2006-10-07 14:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here's what I suggest, instead of trying to do it more than twice a day, concentrate on turning those 4 minutes sessions into 40 minute sessions. All it takes is a little concentration and I can promise you that two 40 minute sessions should satisfy her more than 5 four minute sessions. I can almost guarantee you she has not had time to reach an orgasm in four minutes, let alone having multiple orgasms. Learn what pleases her by touching and kissing her everywhere. Pay attention to how she responds to you. Also increase the length of four play.
2006-10-07 14:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by beautyofthesea 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either give your girlfriend some lavender essential oil on the back of her neck ( you can say you want to give her a little massage first) This will relax her and make her sleepy. OR you can massage some Ylang ylang essential oil on the back of YOUR neck ( no where else) and that should ..ummmm, get you more excited. This is a very subtle effect that takes place in the body. If you go to a Natural food market or someplace that sells natural type stuff. I live in Calif. so I go to "Mothers market" to get my essential oils. You have to make sure it is 100% essential oil though, otherwise it won't work. Good luck.
2006-10-07 14:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you might actually want to talk to the doctor, there are all sorts of things that could be causing the problem. The four minute issue is strictly control. I would suggest a book, and there is a hell of a lot more making love than just intercourse, you should be able to drive her nuts in other ways.
2006-10-07 15:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of my ex-bf's had that problem in his late 20s too. he found some help and answers. what he would do was when he came close to "finishing" he would slow down, and take deep, controling breaths while still doing the deed. its something that might need to be praticed with the both of u. first of all, don't have sex everyday like 2-4 times a day!! lol, its fun to do that sometimes. u guys should slow it down and your girlfriend should understand ur problem (that can be fixed)!! hope that helps hehe!!
2006-10-07 14:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u r not able to satisfy her no matter u do sex 4 or 5 times. the best thing u can do is to indulge in foreplay for eg. kissing her. oral sex, making her reach the ultimate height by excitting her G-POINT.. U CAN INCREASE UR TIME BY USING SOME XTRA TIME CHEMICALS FOR EG XTRA TIME CONDOMS
2006-10-07 14:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by mac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just more foreplay.
:)
Pfffffffft. Seeing a shrink is *not* necessary!
2006-10-07 14:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by Quixotica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do all the above...
and if you can get some toys.. or movies.. (couple movies)
And most of all pay attention to her needs.. find out what she likes and do it. (do it like you like it and want it done to you)
2006-10-07 14:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by jbuchan76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not a phyical thing bro , see a shink...4 real!
good luck
2006-10-07 14:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by groggro 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋