I have been in a relationship for 3yrs and we are in love plus he wants to MARRY ME!! BIG deal!! But my best friend since we were in 1st grade just told me today that he has had a crush on me ever since and he loves me but he has never had the guts to tell me until now....and my boyfriend doesnt know about it ... my best friend wants me to leave my boyfriend for him what should i do??
2006-10-07 14:40:21 · 6 answers · asked by Huney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stay with your man sweetie ,you just said you all are in love.Do not cross any friend boundaries with this man friend of yours.Stay friends,hey you never know maybe you and your man will break up and then you could give it a go with this other guy.Follow your heart ,but don't destroy your current relationship because you think you owe your best friend a try at this whole relationship.You shouldnt tell your boyfriend either because that will lead to jealousy and then he will begin telling you to stay away from your friend,it will just be a war.
2006-10-07 16:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by mommyofsix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends have all these years to tell you, that's his lost.
I really felt sorry for your boyfriend. It seems like you are in love with both or else you wouldn't be asking questions.
Do you ever have feeling for your best friend before?
It's best to be with someone you love. Try to do pros and cons for your boyfriend and your best friend. See who got the most pros. Better yet....write down the criteria of all the things that you want in a husband/soulmate/lover....see who meets most of your criteria.
2006-10-07 22:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard one to chose but you have to look at everything. Like which one can you talk to better, Do you really love the man you have been with for 3 yrs., Can you imagine yourself with your best friend, making love to him and having kids with him and all...
Hope this helps.
2006-10-07 21:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by dodge685 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you best friend that their are other girls out there and tell him that you have already found the person you are going to marry. If he hates you for rejecting him like that, then he is not your true friend.
2006-10-07 21:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy with your boyfriend? If you are happy, why end it for something that may never work out. If you are not happy, go for it you have nothing to lose.
2006-10-07 21:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first kill your boyfriend and then kill yourself. like romeo and Juliet, therefore no one gets hurt and everybody is happy!!!!
2006-10-07 21:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by louman1390 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋