my bf is 15 and we are going to do it soon, should i do it with him if he dont want to use a condom b/c he sayd it will be more "speacialier" if we dont?
2006-10-07 14:08:52 · 19 answers · asked by bennyh20harrypottersystem 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
tell him to use a condum, if he says no tell him no sex.. dont lesten to him when he say it will be more speacial.. it wont.
please use protection!!
2006-10-08 07:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! You could get HIV, Trichomoniasis, Chlamydia,Gonorrhea, Genital Herpes and you WILL get HPV which is Genital WARTS that cause cancer.
Fortunatly for you there is an HPV vaccine out now that I would suggest you get before you even do any heavy petting, let along sex. Cervical cancer is BAD, and 85% of the population of the US has the virus HPV that causes cervical cancer.
I had sex when I was 13, with a boyfriend that I really loved and we had been together for 8 months. He dumped me 2 months later for my best friend, took her virginity too. Sex doesn't even feel good when your 13 anyways. It doesn't start feeling good till your at least 15, because thats when your body is mature enough to handle it. Might be different for others, but thats the way it was for me and all of my friends.
Besides all the sexual diseases you can get, what about pregnancy? Are you on birth control? You do know you can get pregnant right? Sometimes you can get pregnant even if your on birth control. Sometimes the condom can break. Your going to have sex if you want to no matter what I tell you. But do yourself a big favor. Go to the local family planning clinic (just type your city and family planning in a google search), take your boyfriend with you. Get tested for every sexually transmitted infection there is. Get put on birth control pills. You can do all this without your parents knowing. STI tests are around 35 dollars. You boyfriend will pay for both of you if he really wants to get into your pants that bad.
I'd just like to add that if your boyfriend says it will be more "special" if you don't use a condom, he's an *** hole and just doesn't want to use a condom. Didn't you ever see the movie KIDS?????? Thats not just TV, its real life. Good luck! Please try to wait till your ready to take care of a baby or at least have the smarts to protect yourself.
2006-10-07 21:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. I would say if he loves you he will be okay with waiting. And don't do anything without a condom b/c the myth about not getting pregnant the first time is wrong. I have a 13 year old daughter that is proof of that. And I had her at 15. Save yourself. There will be plenty of time for all that when you get older.
2006-10-07 21:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Before you decide to have sex, ask yourself these questions:
1. Do I know enough about having sex to know how a woman becomes pregnant?
2. Have I gone to my doctor to talk about birth control?
3. What would I do if I got pregnant?
4. Do I know enough about sexually transmitted diseases?
5. If my boyfriend has had sex before, has he been tested for AIDS or other diseases?
6. If using a condom is practicing safe sex, why doesn't my boyfriend want to protect US?
Please talk to your Mom, an aunt or some older adult woman that you trust. I'm glad that you've come to this site to get answers, but it also lets me know that you're not ready. If you were, you would understand why using a condom is so important. You wouldn't have sex with someone who doesn't care enough to make sure you're having safe sex.
Not using a condom is not more special, it is more dangerous.
When you decide to have sex, you have to understand that there are responsibilities and consequences that go along with it. If you aren't ready to deal with those, then you're not ready to have sex. Please wait!
2006-10-07 22:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you are 13??? Sweetheart you are a baby yourself. I'm not being mean but you are. Don't have sex. Its not the cool thing to do. Wait a little while. I'm not going to preach. But 13 is way to young you aren't even in high school yet. And if this guy is trying to get you tohave sex he is a jerk. Find a boyfriend that doesn't want to just have sex. Find one that doesn't want to haev sex at all. Because if you have sex with him then he is going to tell all his friends and they are going to tell all theirs and eventually the whole school will know and they are going to being saying things like you are easy or you are a whore. That won't be cool. So just wait for a while. Any questions you can e-mail me. Let me add I haad a baby at 17. Not the worst mistake of my life, but I could have done a lot of things different. I'm just speaking from experience.
2006-10-07 21:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kellen's Mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell? What do you think you're doing, having sex at 13?! That's completely disgusting, I can't believe you'd even consider it. You're a fool to even have to think about using a condom, though. You'd BETTER use one, or you'll end up regretting it later. ;)
2006-10-08 02:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pinky♥Puffin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two are way too young! If he "loves you that much" He will wait to put a wedding ring on your finger. Sex is not for teens, Love Making is for married adult couples only. Please don't ruin your life. Say no and just enjoy kissing and hugging.
2006-10-07 22:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wait till u are alto older and a condom should always be used u don't want to get pregnant or a std
2006-10-07 21:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If yall do it,use a condom unlessu want to have a baby(you are too young to have anyway).
2006-10-07 22:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are ready to become a mommy and he is a daddy if not ready then HELL NO save a life and wait till your ready.
2006-10-07 21:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WAIT no dont even think about doing it without a condom!!!!!!!!! omg dont please im like begging u not to!!!!
and plus u should wiat till ur older to have sex trust me and jsut waittttt!
2006-10-07 21:40:49 · answer #11 · answered by bonna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋