i have done all the things you all have said....being nice, tough love....seen his dr.......and still nothing has helped......I'm wondering why i stay in this relationship....my son is grown, he is 30, fiance son is 12......big differnce
2006-10-07 14:00:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
call the police..he can go to juvenile hall...theft is against the law..
maybe thats how he will learn
talk to your fiancee about this..if nothing is done..you catch him stealing or something gets stolen and dicipline hasnt worked..the police will.
2006-10-07 14:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by mommy2savannah51405 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her you will stay..love endures all things..as for your fiances son tough love sometimes requires calling authorities when he continually does illegal things such as stealing..it may scare him into being better..also you said that he's seen a Dr have you all considered family counseling ??when your mom or dad is marring someone else which you all are sometimes a family counselor is good because then hes not considered the problem and he won't be as defensive...it would be best to enter a marriage happily and welcomed into their hearts..if you love her you love the son he because he is a part of her ..would you give up on your son??
2006-10-07 21:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is only 12, you have atleast 6 years to deal with him. If you can't handle it you need to get out now before it goes further. Have a serious talk to you fiance about this problem, say that you are thinking about leaving, see what happens. Just remember parents almost always take the side of their child, wether its the right thing to do or not. You've got a tough call to make, good luck!
2006-10-07 21:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what is the question. I don't know why you stay either. I would not bother, if my children were grown or not, I am not going to deal with anyone bad ill mannered children. I have four sons of my own and two are grown. I have not "praise God" had any of those issues of stealing and lying. And surely would not deal with it out of anyone else children. Those are your boyfriends issues and he needs to address them, there is really nothing you can do or say. without being the bad guy. So, why are you dealing with it? good luck and God Bless hope you figure it out.
2006-10-07 21:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That makes for some tough choices. If you've tried all the above, I'd say you almost have to tell the fiance look either we need to work on this and fix it or I'm out. You shouldn't have to put up with that. Worst case: call the police...
2006-10-07 21:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by jbuchan76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hopefully you stay because you love your fiance allow your fiance to handle the sons stealing and what ever else problem just be there for support maybe the child is doing these things for attention from the parent
2006-10-07 21:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him to boot canp.go on the dr.phil lol.or beat the lil ***** *** take his phone games ps2 xbox what ever he got dont let him go out the house intill he know who you are.you feel me.d oit if that aint work just beat his ***
2006-10-07 21:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and move on. It will only get worse! Trust me. Been there. You will regret it later if you don't.
2006-10-07 21:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋