ok yea there is this halloween dance comming up.i really like this kid and i really wanna ask him to the dance.im afraid he'll say no tho.hes like the class clown and like he told me and my friend that he's "dating"and "going to the dance"with his guy friend.but we kno he's just kidding.but still wut should i say to him to ask him to the dance?
2006-10-07 13:06:34 · 15 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
In today's society it is OK for girls to ask for dates. just get to talking to him about the dance & slip in a casual hint about the both of you going to it togetther can't hurt.
2006-10-07 13:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tired Old Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put both hands behind your back, and ask him, Trick or Treat? Whichever hand he picks, look at it, as though something was written on it, and read: Will you go to the Hallowe'en dance with me?
Keep it light, and if he says no, tell him you hope, if he's going with someone else, that he'll save a dance for you. If he says yes, you tell him he got the treat!
Have fun.
And whatever he says, don't take it too seriously. Lots of guys are so nonplussed at being asked out by a girl that they automatically say no, when that's not what they mean at all.
2006-10-07 13:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW I see that this is like so hard to do this but what if he says yes you would be so happy right but if he says no you can always go with your best friends or you can ask someone else that U like. And you should say Um I was wondering if you would like to go to the Halloween dance with me?
2006-10-07 16:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by BabyDoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely ask him. If he says yes then you can see if he is as nice a guy as you think he is. If he says no frack him. Women should take a page out of the "guy's" book on dating. Dating is like fishing...you case out and maybe you get a bite: maybe not. Just dive in, if you get a no, forget about it. Fishermen don't get mad at the fish. They just fix up a new hook and try again. Same works for dating, so just have fun and ask him out!
2006-10-07 13:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by shapsjo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask. He might say yes. If you dont ask you`ll never know. Just say " If your not going with anybody to the dance would you like to go with me " ? Good luck.
2006-10-07 13:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by richard b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is go up to hem and say or ask hem are you going to the dance and if he says yes them ask hem . you know what i am 15 i am the same as you to ask a guy that but for me it is different because i like Asian guys if i were you i would be brave and go for it .OK
p.s. and who cares if he says no go with some one ails he is probably a gark.
2006-10-07 21:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by o0jas is the name0o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. Casually ask him, 'Hey, you want to go to the dance with me?' Worst case scenario, he'll say no. Then you can move on with your life, and ask someone else.
2006-10-07 13:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by IAmtheWalrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.
If you get rejected it will not be the last time life pricks you.
That is a part of growing up.
Just ask him straight up--You want to hook up with me for the dance?
2006-10-07 13:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So Ask him, if he says no it's okay. At least you had the courage to ask. Stay true to yourself and go to someone who appreciates you. He might say Yes?
2006-10-07 13:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If you ask, he might say yes. If you don't ask - there is no way he'll say yes because you didn't give him this chance. Give him a chance. See if he takes it. If yes - great. If no -oh well...
2006-10-07 14:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋